Steven acting like Supernanny
RuinedGirl
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Steven and Kim's conversation when she apologised to him was like watching Supernanny's strategy when dealing with a naughty child:
Isolating Kim by putting her on the naughty step and withdrawing his affection from her due to her behaviour, making sure she knows that he is absolutely right and she is absolutely wrong at all times, leaving Kim alone to think about how bad she's been, waiting for Kim to come to him and apologise, making sure Kim knows exactly what she's apologising for (by getting her to clarify several times exactly what she did wrong.) Then once the apology is deemed sufficient and he knows Kim feels bad enough for her 'inappropriate behaviour', giving her the honour of his approval again whilst at the same time making sure Kim knows not to do it ever again or his approval shall quickly be withdrawn and she'll be back on the naughty step to think about just how awful she is. He even added in the classic guilt trip of blame: ''You're making me look/feel bad by behaving the way you do.''
It's actually really creepy to watch, and it's disturbing to me that he finds it acceptable to behave that way.
Isolating Kim by putting her on the naughty step and withdrawing his affection from her due to her behaviour, making sure she knows that he is absolutely right and she is absolutely wrong at all times, leaving Kim alone to think about how bad she's been, waiting for Kim to come to him and apologise, making sure Kim knows exactly what she's apologising for (by getting her to clarify several times exactly what she did wrong.) Then once the apology is deemed sufficient and he knows Kim feels bad enough for her 'inappropriate behaviour', giving her the honour of his approval again whilst at the same time making sure Kim knows not to do it ever again or his approval shall quickly be withdrawn and she'll be back on the naughty step to think about just how awful she is. He even added in the classic guilt trip of blame: ''You're making me look/feel bad by behaving the way you do.''
It's actually really creepy to watch, and it's disturbing to me that he finds it acceptable to behave that way.
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"what are you apologising for?"
"how much do I love you?"
"Kiiiiiiim?"
It was truly awful!
I think its Steven who's the gameplayer, he's reeled her in, and is using her for everything he can get. The more I see of her the more i think she really does like him. So many people think its her, but wait and see he's in it for the fame.