perhaps your "mate" should find someone else to shag and the next time the married bloke orders your "mate" to meet him at his house perhaps your "mate" should tell him to do one ?
Hi all. Long time lurker, first time poster. Usually read the advice pages so thought you guys could help me out.
Basically my male mate from work is having an affair with a married man. Or should I say was. It all started almost a year ago when they met each other and his wife at some work gathering. One thing led to another after a few drinks and the missus away, and before long they had sex at a hotel. My mate told me the married bloke never had sex with men before, but wasn't too sure seeing as he was "very experienced" in bed. Nor did he feel ashamed.
Things ticked over, and two months later they did it in the married bloke's bed. As you can imagine my mate was confused, head all over the place. He was sick of being some secret and told him to leave him alone or just grow a pair of balls and tell the wife.
Just two weeks ago both attended a birthday party. My mate seemed to move on and brought a guest with him, who the married guy thought was his partner. Interrogated both and told my mate to meet him at his the following morning to clear things up -- his wife would be away at work. They did more than that and had sex.
It's all a mess and it sounds like something from a soap drama. My mate is at a crossroads -- he feels he has to take action before it's too late. He doesn't want to tell the wife because he's actually on good terms with her and can't avoid the married bloke because they work together, almost daily. He likes the man but doesn't he want to play the part of homewrecker. Suggestions?
You should persuade this friend to leave the married man alone and forget about him. If he doesn't listen to you then just stay out of the whole matter. He'll soon face the consequences.
your mate shouldn't of even went there knowing he was married. Do you they have kids?
Imagine how the wife would feel
I always wonder about things like this. In my opinion the fault is with the person who is in a relationship. The person who is single is not cheating on anyone. It may not be adviseable to sleep with someone who is in a relationship, but I do not understand why the single person is nearly always considered to be at fault. Do these people have magic powers that make the person who is married sleep with them and make it all the single persons fault?
Ooh, that's good. What about if the wife finds out, it's a huge turn-on for her, and she's happy for them all to indulge in threesomes? Gah, I'm on tenterhooks just thinking about what's in store !
I've seen that movie, lets just say it had a happy ending
Ooh, that's good. What about if the wife finds out, it's a huge turn-on for her, and she's happy for them all to indulge in threesomes? Gah, I'm on tenterhooks just thinking about what's in store !
I have been reading a lot of books (filth) like that lately. Why have one bloke when you have have two, three or even four?
Wouldn't three be the maximum you could..er... accommodate at any one time ?
Well, I suppose five if you had one for each hand too....
Weeellllllll, some of the books have men doubling up in the main lady area, then one at the back and one at the mouth. But don't forget that some men like man love also.........
Do you know, my husband once worked out I was smoking behind his back because of my behaviour - looking any excuse to pop out, etc - and said well you were either having an affair or smoking again, and we both know you're too lazy to execute an affair. Cheeky bugger!
Weeellllllll, some of the books have men doubling up in the main lady area, then one at the back and one at the mouth. But don't forget that some men like man love also.........
Man alive, woman! What sort of books are these?! I need author, titles, retail prices, pictures...pictures. Yes, I need pictures.
Do you know, my husband once worked out I was smoking behind his back because of my behaviour - looking any excuse to pop out, etc - and said well you were either having an affair or smoking again, and we both know you're too lazy to execute an affair. Cheeky bugger!
Man alive, woman! What sort of books are these?! I need author, titles, retail prices, pictures...pictures. Yes, I need pictures.
There are loads out there. You can *hem* get some "free" on sites that have torrents if you get my drift? Otherwise Amazon do some free to a kindle or you can download their kindle app to your phone or pc and read them there offline. Enjoy ;-)
Never involve yourself in the extra-marital affairs of people who are not you or your own partner.
That is the single best advice anyone could ever give on any situation where a mate is any one of the three protagonists in the story.
If you are the gay man having an affair with a married man, is he really worth the aggro? Plenty more fish in the sea.
If you are the married man having an affair with a gay man, you need to decide what you want and go for it
If you are the wife, kick your husband out.
There are loads out there. You can *hem* get some "free" on sites that have torrents if you get my drift? Otherwise Amazon do some free to a kindle or you can download their kindle app to your phone or pc and read them there offline. Enjoy ;-)
Oh good grief. Fanny, you are a corrupting influence:D
I think you should tell the wife, then when she gets all upset you can comfort her then maybe end up sleeping with her and this can be the basis of the next twist in the yarn you're spinning.
Then perhaps she could get pregnant and won't know who the father is....
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phew! thank god for that!
i know which camp i'm in on this one....
neither do the vast majority of the population of earth
sure you do.......
Surely if I'm wumming you'd cease to respond.
The OP's first post reminds me of the affair between Danny Lomax and John Paul McQueen on Hollyoaks.
no, because the more we get you to participate the more holes you'll start to dig and your story will start to fall apart.
keep participating... go on... you know you want to.
tell us more of the "story".
Agreed.
I always wonder about things like this. In my opinion the fault is with the person who is in a relationship. The person who is single is not cheating on anyone. It may not be adviseable to sleep with someone who is in a relationship, but I do not understand why the single person is nearly always considered to be at fault. Do these people have magic powers that make the person who is married sleep with them and make it all the single persons fault?
I've seen that movie, lets just say it had a happy ending
I have been reading a lot of books (filth) like that lately. Why have one bloke when you have have two, three or even four?
For you?
fun, exciting, sneaking around, passion
A lady never tells
You should give some of the books I am reading a try......
Wouldn't three be the maximum you could..er... accommodate at any one time ?
Well, I suppose five if you had one for each hand too....
Oh no, things have gone way beyond that in the world of porn. Or so a mate told me...
Weeellllllll, some of the books have men doubling up in the main lady area, then one at the back and one at the mouth. But don't forget that some men like man love also.........
Sing a long now...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXtx6N3ww7Y
Oh no. down with that sort of thing. Very tiring.
Do you know, my husband once worked out I was smoking behind his back because of my behaviour - looking any excuse to pop out, etc - and said well you were either having an affair or smoking again, and we both know you're too lazy to execute an affair. Cheeky bugger!
Man alive, woman! What sort of books are these?! I need author, titles, retail prices, pictures...pictures. Yes, I need pictures.
Google MMMF or menage books
http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/270530.Suzanne_Thomas
https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/1426984.Brynn_Paulin
There are loads out there. You can *hem* get some "free" on sites that have torrents if you get my drift? Otherwise Amazon do some free to a kindle or you can download their kindle app to your phone or pc and read them there offline. Enjoy ;-)
That is the single best advice anyone could ever give on any situation where a mate is any one of the three protagonists in the story.
If you are the gay man having an affair with a married man, is he really worth the aggro? Plenty more fish in the sea.
If you are the married man having an affair with a gay man, you need to decide what you want and go for it
If you are the wife, kick your husband out.
Oh good grief. Fanny, you are a corrupting influence:D
Then perhaps she could get pregnant and won't know who the father is....
I do try.......