Nickil- emmerdale

[Deleted User] · 01/08/13 - 00:23

Poor guy. Hes just lost his wife and none of them are giving him a break. His family should look after the baby for a couple of weeks to help him sort his head out. Let him fo for his long runs. All his family are doing is having a go at him.

Peter King · 01/08/13 - 00:25

Nikhil Sharma.

Yeah I wondered this to but his daughter does need him right now. Molly Sharma must be all over the place with Gennie Sharma not being there.

[Deleted User] · 01/08/13 - 00:39

I know his daughter needs him but when you are grieving like that looking after a baby is hard.

Peter King · 01/08/13 - 00:40

All families react differently, there is no right and wrong answer.

I'm sure Brendan or his mum will snap him out of it.

Hound of Love · 01/08/13 - 00:42

Yes, June Ackland will sort him out:D

And lovely David. His and Nikhil's bromance has been underused.

Peter King · 01/08/13 - 00:43

Just keep Jim away!

ferdybookgeek · 01/08/13 - 00:43

His wife only died a few days ago and his head is all over the place, he's in no fit state to look after Molly.
I can't believe how horrible Jai and his dad are being, his family should be helping him with Molly for a few weeks until he's not as devastated.
If he was still acting that way after a few months then I could understand them being frustrated with him but it's not even been a week since Gennie died. Why are they expecting so much from him?!

[Deleted User] · 01/08/13 - 00:45

Jesus..... It's only a TV show....

ferdybookgeek · 01/08/13 - 00:49

Freefalling wrote: »

Jesus..... It's only a TV show....

Yes, we all realise that - That's why we're discussing the soap on the soap forum.

danyell · 01/08/13 - 01:02

I think it was irresponsible of them to leave Nikhil alone with Molly, when he's not in his right frame of mind.

Cuddly_Cat · 01/08/13 - 01:19

I agree that the family should look after Molly at least until after the funeral which he will have to organise.

[Deleted User] · 01/08/13 - 01:19

ferdybookgeek wrote: »

His wife only died a few days ago and his head is all over the place, he's in no fit state to look after Molly.
I can't believe how horrible Jai and his dad are being, his family should be helping him with Molly for a few weeks until he's not as devastated.
If he was still acting that way after a few months then I could understand them being frustrated with him but it's not even been a week since Gennie died. Why are they expecting so much from him?!

Exactly.

Cuddly_Cat · 01/08/13 - 01:20

Freefalling wrote: »

Jesus..... It's only a TV show....

Yes we know that.

mo mouse · 01/08/13 - 01:40

There are many things that could happen to me that might make me sad and make me grieve. However, none of them could reduce me to a state where they would outweigh responsibility for a child or baby who entirely needed and relied on me being there and being strong for them. I simply have too much strength of character to allow it to happen, difficult though it may be to carry out. I would manage it somehow because I can evaluate situations and see things in some kind of perspective.

Nikhil is showing himself to be weak, unreliable and not the kind of parent that a child could rely on. I don't say this because I am special in any way, but because my parents were like that and made such sacrifices for me even when it was hard to do so and I have taken on such values, hard as it sometimes is to do so. I have a lot of sympathy for Nikhil but when he handed Molly over to Brenda last night, it made me feel sick.

danyell · 01/08/13 - 02:15

mo mouse wrote: »

There are many things that could happen to me that might make me sad and make me grieve. However, none of them could reduce me to a state where they would outweigh responsibility for a child or baby who entirely needed and relied on me being there and being strong for them. I simply have too much strength of character to allow it to happen, difficult though it may be to carry out. I would manage it somehow because I can evaluate situations and see things in some kind of perspective.

Nikhil is showing himself to be weak, unreliable and not the kind of parent that a child could rely on. I don't say this because I am special in any way, but because my parents were like that and made such sacrifices for me even when it was hard to do so and I have taken on such values, hard as it sometimes is to do so. I have a lot of sympathy for Nikhil but when he handed Molly over to Brenda last night, it made me feel sick.

I suppose nobody can judge Nikhil if they haven't been in his shoes.

Andybear · 01/08/13 - 03:59

Cuddly_Cat wrote: »

I agree that the family should look after Molly at least until after the funeral which he will have to organise.

I don't think Nkihill will organise the funeral with the state he's in. I think Rishi or Jai will do it.

[Deleted User] · 01/08/13 - 04:03

mo mouse wrote: »

There are many things that could happen to me that might make me sad and make me grieve. However, none of them could reduce me to a state where they would outweigh responsibility for a child or baby who entirely needed and relied on me being there and being strong for them. I simply have too much strength of character to allow it to happen, difficult though it may be to carry out. I would manage it somehow because I can evaluate situations and see things in some kind of perspective.

Nikhil is showing himself to be weak, unreliable and not the kind of parent that a child could rely on. I don't say this because I am special in any way, but because my parents were like that and made such sacrifices for me even when it was hard to do so and I have taken on such values, hard as it sometimes is to do so. I have a lot of sympathy for Nikhil but when he handed Molly over to Brenda last night, it made me feel sick.

He isn't weak. He is grieving! Everyone is different.

peach45 · 01/08/13 - 05:14

Gennie was the strong one in that relationship, his soul-mate and she's gone. He just isn't able to bear the grief that he is going through, so is shutting down, and shutting everyone out.

He will sort himself out eventually, he does adore that little girl, and when he is on the other side of this (if he manages to before VietCam bumps him off, if he does) he will hate that he wasn't there for his daughter when she needed him most.

His family need to play their part, and give him the time he needs.

alias alias · 01/08/13 - 12:41

She was the strong one lol and had to take charge and tell him to kiss her for the first time, Maisie had to take charge as well i think.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2mBAT7uSM0c

evole · 01/08/13 - 13:38

ferdybookgeek wrote: »

Yes, we all realise that - That's why we're discussing the soap on the soap forum.

Thank you!

bob321 · 01/08/13 - 13:44

Freefalling wrote: »

Jesus..... It's only a TV show....

Comments like this on a soap forum really are very strange... why are you looking on here?

Janet Plank · 01/08/13 - 13:49

Freefalling wrote: »

Jesus..... It's only a TV show....

What has Our Lord got to do with it? and why are you on a soap forum, Freefalling?

RadicalNature · 01/08/13 - 14:56

ferdybookgeek wrote: »

Yes, we all realise that - That's why we're discussing the soap on the soap forum.

:D:D

RadicalNature · 01/08/13 - 14:58

ferdybookgeek wrote: »

His wife only died a few days ago and his head is all over the place, he's in no fit state to look after Molly.
I can't believe how horrible Jai and his dad are being, his family should be helping him with Molly for a few weeks until he's not as devastated.
If he was still acting that way after a few months then I could understand them being frustrated with him but it's not even been a week since Gennie died. Why are they expecting so much from him?!

Agree completely. It was the DAY AFTER SHE DIED that Charity was shouting at him. Horrible. I know if I was in his situation I'd need a hell of a lot of help looking after my hyperactive 1 year old.

Gulftastic · 01/08/13 - 14:59

Hound of Love wrote: »

And lovely David. His and Nikhil's bromance has been underused.

I agree. Nikhil helped David during the 'In me dress!' incident. I think David should be the one who really makes the breakthrough with Nikhil.

Ber · 01/08/13 - 15:03

RadicalNature wrote: »

Agree completely. It was the DAY AFTER SHE DIED that Charity was shouting at him. Horrible. I know if I was in his situation I'd need a hell of a lot of help looking after my hyperactive 1 year old.

In Nikhils case though its not that people wouldn't help him with Molly, its his complete lack of interest in her.

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