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Do 'UGLY' people find there 'UGLY partner sexy?
36_Chambers
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Lets not pretend we dont judge people.
Ok, So when your walking down the high street and you see that text book overweight slob and his equally overweight slob of a girlfriend, Do you ever wonder if they find each other attractive?
Now of course they could be the most wonderfull person in the world and what not.
But for me I could never begin a relationship if the woman wasnt in my eyes attractive.
Now my one cousin is 23 stone and very overweight and his girlfriend is big aswell id say easily a dress size 20, Now he tells her she is sexy and im pretty sure this is total poppycock as his bedroom at his moms has pictures of slim sexy models all over the walls, Now if I walked into his bedroom and the walls was covered with PLUS sized models I would believe he finds his GF sexy.
And his GF on her lock screen on her phone is picture of Channing Tatum.
Do these people just want a companion and will settle for anyone that shows them abit of attention.
Ok, So when your walking down the high street and you see that text book overweight slob and his equally overweight slob of a girlfriend, Do you ever wonder if they find each other attractive?
Now of course they could be the most wonderfull person in the world and what not.
But for me I could never begin a relationship if the woman wasnt in my eyes attractive.
Now my one cousin is 23 stone and very overweight and his girlfriend is big aswell id say easily a dress size 20, Now he tells her she is sexy and im pretty sure this is total poppycock as his bedroom at his moms has pictures of slim sexy models all over the walls, Now if I walked into his bedroom and the walls was covered with PLUS sized models I would believe he finds his GF sexy.
And his GF on her lock screen on her phone is picture of Channing Tatum.
Do these people just want a companion and will settle for anyone that shows them abit of attention.
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People head over heels in love actually picked the tweaked-attractive images of their partners, and correspondingly those who weren't happy selected the tweaked-unattractive photos. So to an extent beauty is in the eye of the beholder
And why does it say 'UGLY' in the thread title when you meant 'FAT?'
Quite.
Mind you, I judge people on the quality of their grammar in threads, so this title makes me judge the OP somewhat....;)
I especially find myself having this bitchy thought when watching Jeremy Kyle. I'm always amazed their 'guests' have got laid once, let alone by multiple people. I can only conclude people have very low standards.
Although personality is vital, I always had to find someone attractive to even bother with them. If that's superficial, fair enough, but I could never get past someone looking ugly. As a friend, yes, you can look like Frankenstein's monster, I will still adore you. But not as the Other Half.
Obese is ugly.
Plenty of slim people also are ugly just watch Jeremy Kyle
Just because someone is good looking does not mean at all everyone is going to fall in love with this person, so is the same the other way around. The society ideal of beauty or even our own physical ideals counts very little in real life. Ugly to whom, in relation to what?
In some countires obese women are classed as beautiful.
Oh yes, there is a certain skinny "crack head", toothless look on Jeremy Kyle, Male and female, that is as bad.:eek::D
I think on Jezza Kyle, regardless of size, there is a lot of not looking at the mantle piece when poking the fire, going off.
Its a double bag job, I'll wear one on my head in case the one on yours splits.
I'm watching jez right now and I was thinking exactly the same thing. Desire and sexual attraction is a funny thing, I don't think it's shallow to say how someone looks is important when it comes to sexual attraction but there are so many other things going on aswell, voice, body language, personality ect. I couldn't be attracted to someone who looked amazing but with the personality of a wet fish. Il I think it's half and half. A mix of both looks and personality.
Don't worry, we're not to fond of the OP either
NOW............Maybe you could ask your 'one cousin' if he just wants a companion, and will settle for anyone for a bit of attention. You might get your answer, or you might get a FAT UGLY lip lol
So basically you go for visually attractive on the surface before finding out whats going on behind the eyes, a recipe for diaster if you ask me.
But the usual way of things is beautiful people with beautiful people (unless they have something else of equal value like wealth) and less attractive with less attractive.
A 20 stone woman can have the most beautiful personality in the world but she'll never get to be with the six-packed male model she fantasises about.. most people fancy beautiful slim people, but they have to be realistic about who they can attract, or they stay alone.