So if a man pulled a woman's knickers down and slapped her on the ass...
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The man would get kicked out and labelled a pervert / rapist.
But a woman gets a warning. A poxy warning.
And people bang on about equality of the sexes
But a woman gets a warning. A poxy warning.
And people bang on about equality of the sexes
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I believe he should of gone by the way..no question..he was totally out of order
That happened when it was still playful carry on before Daley grabbed her by te throat, forced her down n said he would nut her
But now I see! Hazel didn't care one eye ota that Daley got evicted and yet she was pretending to be his best friend!
But on the sexism side that does piss me off. If you want equal rights then you have to take the rough with the smooth ie hazel getting kicked out for exposing Daley
Waiting for him to come back, going to the diary room herself then coming back to cuddle him all might just seems strange to me.
I do think it was rough foreplay and if he hadnt said the words nut you theyd have probably finally ended up having sex last night
Agreed.
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It needs quoting again too, because people are presuming that if Daley had pulled down Hazel's pants, he would also have been booted out. Not true!
Why do you say it's not true, we don't have an example of another man doing it do we? I take it the cbb moment is when Denise did it to another woman.
if daley had pulled her knickers down he would of been called in straight away its double standards.
Hazel has to take responsibility for getting involved with a man like that, she should have known from the off that someone who would humiliate their girlfriend on TV isn't all that. She played with fire and she got burnt.
So it's playful when she hits him, kicks him, pulls his clothes down but serious when he responds?
Ok so if I pulled your wifes knickers down exposing her vagina and then slapped her on the ass that would be ok?
And if you're a woman how about I did it to you
There was a difference in intention.
There was a difference in degree.
And there is a difference between men and women. Equality isn't about ignoring the differences between men and women and there are differences.
If you really think that Hazel behaved in the same way as Daley during that incident you are either naive are deliberately being a wind-up merchant.
Woman does it to woman - receives warning.
Woman does it to man - receives warning.
Why is the assumption that if a man does it to a woman he will definitely be booted out? History dictates that he would get a warning.
I think the assumption is that the 2 cases would not be treated equally and history doesn't have any examples to compare.
Watch the footage again, and you'll see that Hazel is being mostly playful, maybe even a touch seductive. She's not intending any aggression in the way she acts. Daley then starts getting aggressive and talking the big talk. Up till Daley starts to get REALLY aggressive, Hazel is trying to lighten the situation or playing about in the hopes that he'll cool down.
The slap, and egging on were terrible moves on Hazel's part. The pants pulling was outright wrong, that was a line that she should not of crossed and a warning was warranted on that account. Otherwise she was getting herself in over her head in that situation. She immediately moved to the chair soon as she possibly could. Clearly pretty shocked at what had happened, I'm sure she was thanking her lucky stars that someone had made the decision to call Daley then and there.
If the worst Daley had done was the slap and some of his lighter tough-talk. Then yes, he would of gotten a warning just like Hazel did, and told to cool off and mull over what he did. But he verbally threatened her quite a few times in that little discussion and then attempted to physically pin her down. I imagine production staff were already concerned after the make-up talk and other attitudes displayed prior to this too.