Originally Posted by Sheila36dd:
“So what? Deciding you dislike someone just because they happen to be Muslim is prejudiced. Why not wait to get to know them before making judgements about them?”
Interesting point. Although I think you are mixing up prejudice with experience. While it would be nice to treat everyone equally in life, it doesn't happen. People's attitudes are learnt through experience, and they develop mechanisms to make educated judgements on others based on that experience. It's a natural survival mechanism, that even animals have.
Getting away from the whole Muslim thing, as that seems to be contentious, but imagine a bunch of kids hanging around shops in a run down area, some have Buckfast bottles, they are all wearing hoodies. Do you walk up to them and make pleasant conversation, trying to get to know them before making a judgement, or do you avoid them and park your expensive car elsewhere?
Likewise a bunch of skinheads are in a pub you frequent, some of them have swastikas tattooed on their foreheads. Do you hang around incase some of them turn out to be interesting and funloving individuals or do you make a quick mass judgement and leave?
Now I have known several Muslim guys, and loads of asian people, and they have all been really nice people, pretty easy-going and fair. But you know, how someone chooses to portray themselves will affect how they are perceived by people that don't know them, that's just the way it is, and they are aware of that when they decide whether or not, and to what extent they wish to allow their religion to dictate their appearance.
That's why I have to wear a suit and tie to work. Not for me, I would rather wear jeans and t-shirt, but to manage the judgements other people may make of me, on first impression. If my religion dictated I had to have a mohican haircut, I would have to weigh up my religious convictions with the effect this would have on other people. That's modern civilisation for you.
As far as I'm concerned this guy can have whatever the hell beard he likes though. I don't dislike him or like him so far.