Originally Posted by peely:
“lol....I'm not the most feminine of females, preferring to do rock climbing, appearing a bit butch, I don't wear make up or dresses. I go out on my own a lot, so people probably make the wrong assumptions about me.
However, I'm married and have two daughters (not that that necessarily means anything), but I've never wanted or contemplated a relationship with a woman (other than as friends), and all my fantasies are about men.
I don't think either Nick or Sir Alan are gay. Margaret I'm not sure about, but as I state above, appearances can be deceptive.
As far as stating that someone is gay, which may be seen as slanderous, perhaps it would be less rude and safer to precede what y'all say with "I think...".”
I thought I'd add to my post, to say, its probably a good thing that other thread was stopped. However, I think children should be brought up to be independent and responsible, not be forced to have the opinion of their parents. We don't own our children, we should be trying to nurture them into being adults who can stick up for themselves, but treat other people as individuals. On that basis it doesn't matter about someone's sexuality or race.
I don't get it perfect, but the above is what I try to aim for.