Originally Posted by
Tern:
“Making the odd ridiculous generalisation doesn't mean you are generally ridiculous. 
It was a ridiculous generalisation, though.”
I respect you Tern, so I will attempt to put this generalisation accusation to rest.
This is the original opinion I posted, which as you can see by Monkseal's response seems to have provoked a rather needless patronising accusation of silliness.
I did not say aristocrats
alone exude confidence - I said they have a certain air about them that
many people lack. ergo there was no generalisation. I did not suggest that they are immediately recognisable as aristocrats by their social demeanour - indeed I concur that many non aristos from a privileged background also exhibit a similar confidence and social ease - which is why I mentioned Raef and Lucinda when initially making my point.
I believe it's reasonable to judge Monkseal as having misinterpreted my post - a misinterpretation which she then exacerbated with her 'silly and ridiculous,' comments.
Indeed I might have ignored her generatlisation interpretation had she not chosen to accompany her comments in such a patronising manner.
Originally Posted by Ignazio:
“Can't see anything aristrocratic about any of them. Whether we like them or not, true aristocrats have a certain air about them: an effortless confidence that many people lack. They don't need to resort to mindless, blustering bragging in the mode of Ben. It can't be Kate with that regional accent. James does bumble about a la Boris Johnston - but again the accent is all wrong.
As for Noorul - that accent could never pass for posh.
Nope - the only candidates over all the series I would consider truly posh are Raef and Lucinda - and they weren't aristocrats.”
Originally Posted by Monkseal:
“At University I met aristocrats at a few parties (I know, get me) so excuse me whilst I laugh my tits off at the idea that they have any sort of special air or confidence that we mere mortals lack. If I hadn't been told, I wouldn't have been able to tell them apart from any other posh person. They're not magic.”