Originally Posted by layumba:
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I understand the different viewpoints, but I liked the Strictly forum as it was, warts and all.
Having to switch from the main forum to the attic has lost the unique character of the forum ....for me.”
Hi Layumba - I really agree with your points here. See my summary below, since there's a few other posts I wish to quote first, then comment on them all!
Originally Posted by Kit L:
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It would have been interesting to see the results of a poll if DS had asked whether the change would be welcomed.
My major annoyance with it is that it discourages people from posting on both the "main board" and "appreciation attic" because of the need to switch back and forth. Not exactly conducive to discussion.
Maybe we should set up 'discussion' threads for each couple so that all aspects of their performances can be discussed.
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I too would have liked to see the results of a poll before changes were implemented - I really do like your idea of the discussion threads for each new couple every year - this would solve the problem!
Originally Posted by claire2281;35379023
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“People have complained in the past that their nice, fluffy appreciation threads were being invaded by those who wanted to say negative things. Therefore, a rule was implemented saying that appreciation threads can only be positive.[/b] This makes them an exception to every other thread on DS. They're not designed for discussion, they're designed to say how much you like someone.
I suppose they can easily argue that now it is much easier to administer. No negative is allowed in the appreciation threads forum. If you want to discuss it is clear you need to be in the main forum.”
Originally Posted by
StrictlyRed:
“Another thing is, some people on these "nice fluffy appreciation threads" use their thread to say negative things about other celebs and pros.
I may like more than one dancer, but not post on their thread for this reason.”
claire2281 and Strictly Red, I can understand what you are saying above - and as someone who posts on one thread but occasionally ventures out into others, I wanted to comment as follows:
I know that, like the TCA thread I post on, there are many longstanding threads which have their "regulars" and I like this - therefore, if I go into one of those threads to make a comment, I try to be aware of what is going on in the thread before bludgeoning in and trying to be part of something I'm just not part of, and making sure I try to introduce myself first before posting and being sensitive with what I post whilst still expressing my point of view - it IS possible! These longstanding threads are slightly different in etiquette to the ones which (although having equal value and validity) are new and have just started up.
Whenever I have gone into another apprecation thread - Gethin's last year and Matt&Flavia's, Brendan's, and Flavia's this year - the girls in there have always been really lovely and have always at least acknowledged me by saying hi - even though I am not part of them.
With regard to not being able to post a negative in these threads - my first thought is "oh how bloody silly - you should be able to have constructive discussion even if its not lovely!" and secondly, that I am just so unsure about how this fits in "my" thread (i.e. the one I post on!).
I am not sure where it fits in really - probably nowhere! Because although TCA IS for
sure an appreciation thread for Matthew Cutler, we have always welcomed discussion on him, even if people come in and comment to the negative, so long as it is done constructively. We are all happy to have a discussion about what someone feels about a situation or dance etc even if it is not complimentary. So we are not really typical of an appreciation thread where you can only say nice things. Therefore, I am uncertain of where we should be!
I was slammed during SCD5 for saying on the thread that I really didn't like Matt's choreo for the salsa he and Alesha did! And I am utterly devoted to Mr Cutler! I think its okay to say those things and discuss them......this is what I mean about not being sure where we fit in in this new scheme - although we adore and appreciate him we don't just blindly think the sun shines out of him! We always support him absolutely, but are always honest about things that are not always right or that we don't entirely like.
I must agree wholeheartedly though with you about some threads using the safety of an appreciation thread to criticise other pros/celebs etc. I really don't like this - sometimes you get it incessantly - my view is that I prefer to talk about the one I like - will discuss the others - but rarely do I make nasty comments about them - would prefer to keep that to myself! I DO have one pro that I absolutely cannot stand! but I wouldn't talk about this person negatively in TCA nor would I barge into their appreciation thread and make negative comments there.
I don't really mind being relegated to the "attic" as one poster put it (thought this was a great description!) - but I DO agree with you that this new scheme will not promote good discussion.
By going "inter-thread" I have personally made such lovely friends in "real life" (

) from this - we meet up and have made some truly special friendships which have been proven to be enduring outside of SCD, and these friendships have come not only from the thread we post on the most.
By separating them I think it will kill the lovely experience that I know a lot of us have had by being able to go into all the threads because we can see them on the front page - and this is what has for me made DS far more special than other forums - it is kind of more than that.
I know we CAN still go into all the threads but it makes you less keen to do it since they are separated now - if you only have five minutes to post quickly, then its lovely to be able to see everything on the one page.
To make it like it is now only makes the forum like the BBC's or other forums, which due to their need for navigation, are far less friendly.
I think people will be less interested (or less bothered) in going into all the threads when they are split up like this - as Layumba said - I liked it before when it was all on the page together, warts and all!
I do also respect that people want "proper discussion" and want the appreciation threads out of the way, but to me, that is saying that "proper discussion" has a greater importance than an SCD related appreciation thread which talks about the pros and celebs who actually MAKE the show. Everyone has an equal place - or they should have - one is not more important than the other.
As has happened for some time now - we all choose which threads we go into - and it is no great hardship to ignore the threads you don't like or don't want to post in - its an extra click onto page 2 or whatever to find your "home" thread when all the new threads come each year, and if you bookmark your favourite thread, then you don't even have to do that.
All the "new couples" appreciation threads each year tend to mostly disappear by December anyway when the show finishes, leaving the front page to those of us who post all year round, so if it is the sheer number of new appreciation threads which bother you by cluttering up the first page, they don't hang around long. It doesn't mean either that anyone who doesn't post all year round is less entitled to a viewpoint than we are - the forum is for everyone at all times.
I find that the posters on the threads which are longstanding i.e. Ballroom Bill, TCA etc, to name but two, often post on other threads as well - so you get to "know" the regular posters and its great for forum discussion to see how people's views change over the years and why.
And for those who post just in the "season" I absolutely love seeing all the regulars coming back year after year - its great!
By making the appreciation threads separate, people who only post on the now "main" forum will not have the benefit of the regular posters' ability to compare and contrast seasons, and it will be poorer as a result.
I rarely post on any "new couple" appreciation thread for Matt though - instead I tend to make all my comments on TCA and don't venture into the new one very much each year - but that is generally because the thread disappears quickly, and because I post all year round, I love the longevity of TCA and that is where I feel most comfortable and at home, like many of us do on our "home" thread.
I liked seeing all the threads - appreciation AND discussion - on the same page!
I like seeing how different it is each year - I really do enjoy that - but this system is going to make for a much "drier" forum without the inter-relationships which make it such a lovely friendly place for the most part, compared to other forums.