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Old 04-05-2011, 11:26
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Thank you Pete for you comment.

I think one of the things we can take away from such an experience is a complete appreciation of the children, that if we are lucky will follow such a terrible loss.
The first thing I did when I got home from the hospital was hug my other children and it was just such a comfort.

I went on to have 5 more children and count my blessings often.
It is a comfort to hear from somebody who has similar experiences.

Our greatest comfort, (My wife and I) is the joy our 5 grand children give us. Only Monday the little 11 month old grand son showed off his new crawling skills to us. Moments like that make it all worth while. We get through in spite of what has happened.
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Old 12-05-2011, 19:28
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I'm so glad this group is still here. Depression never really goes away, does it? I've just referred myself for my second round of therapy.
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Old 12-05-2011, 19:36
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no it doesn't millie are you ok
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Old 13-05-2011, 18:45
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Thanks Sally I've had a pretty low couple of days irrespective of taking my ADs and despite the fact I'm not pre-menstrual. I just feel like I hate the world. Can't wait till my first therapy appointment comes through.
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Old 13-05-2011, 20:32
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what ones are you on
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Old 14-06-2011, 00:09
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I'm so glad this group is still here. Depression never really goes away, does it? I've just referred myself for my second round of therapy.
You are spot on there. Hope you aren't waiting too long for your appointment.
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Old 14-06-2011, 01:24
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i really wish this thread was active again could do with a little support right now
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Old 14-06-2011, 09:50
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What's up, Sal?
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Old 14-06-2011, 23:58
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Hey Sal, got a feeling lots of us still lurking, how can we help you? xx
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Old 15-06-2011, 17:47
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hi girls its probably nothing but i am just finding it quite a struggle atm i assumed things would get easier i suppose but nettie just can't adapt to life in a wheelchair at all i'm not too well myself haven't been for months really but a holiday is totally out of the question as she can't be away from home don't worry i'll be ok just feeling it a bit atm
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Old 15-06-2011, 20:21
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hi girls its probably nothing but i am just finding it quite a struggle atm i assumed things would get easier i suppose but nettie just can't adapt to life in a wheelchair at all i'm not too well myself haven't been for months really but a holiday is totally out of the question as she can't be away from home don't worry i'll be ok just feeling it a bit atm
It's not nothing at all Sal. It's so tough being a carer. Who cares for you? Do you have any time out for yourself?

Feel free to pm me if it would help? Tell you what I'll pm you as I might have a bit of a distraction to suggest for you.

((((xxx)))))
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Old 16-06-2011, 02:46
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thanks lorry will answer your pm tmrw am really not well tonight x
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Old 16-06-2011, 17:43
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Sal, you've had to be strong for so many people, no wonder it gets a bit much once in a while. Have you told your doctor how you are feeling? (((((hugs)))))
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Old 16-06-2011, 22:36
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no i haven't i have to have an emergency appt tmrw as i have been doubled up with heartburn indigestion for two days and the pain around my ribs is horrendous so nhs direct told me i need one
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Old 16-06-2011, 23:23
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Hope whichever doctor you see is kind and understanding, be sure to let him/her know exactly how things are. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow x
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Old 16-06-2011, 23:41
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my dr is marvellous i couldnt wish for better how are you xxx
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Old 17-06-2011, 17:17
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Hey Sal, how did it go at the doctors. Hope things are looking a bit more ositive for you now x
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Old 19-06-2011, 13:48
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not sure yet had to have an emergency ecg late friday pm
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Old 19-06-2011, 21:03
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You poor thing, as if you don't have enough to cope with! When do you get the results and how are you feeling now?
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Old 22-06-2011, 12:21
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i have to go back in 2 weeks just feel so rough at the moment=------------- thats dotty saying hello
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Old 22-06-2011, 12:50
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i have to go back in 2 weeks just feel so rough at the moment=------------- thats dotty saying hello
Hello Dotty

Are you getting any help at all Sal? Either professional, friends or family? You and Nettie shouldn't be coping alone, support on here is great but you need some practical support too, so don't be afraid to ask for it. xx
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Old 22-06-2011, 16:29
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don't suppose anyone's around either now or later on?
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Old 22-06-2011, 18:04
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don't suppose anyone's around either now or later on?
i can be beth x
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Old 22-06-2011, 19:05
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Only if you're around anyway? I'm just going for some dinner, but I'll be on here later. It's nothing major, just want to get something off my chest x
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Old 04-07-2011, 10:44
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Hey Sal, must be time to go get those results anytime now, got everything crossed for you and hope you are feeling stronger xx
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