Originally Posted by
Quizmike:
“1) If you know people who come from foreign countries who can speak better than yourself you have answered your own qustion.
2) Language is subjective and always changing. If language was meant to stick to an excact set of rules then we would all still be talking Chaucerian. Do you agree that "LOL" and "BTW" should be outlawed? How about "isn't"? Or "OK"? Or "Kids"? Where do we stop?
And no it's not snobbish. It's elitist. As you have an excellent grasp of the language you will know the difference.
And shouldn't it be "she is in need of sorting it?"
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Out of curiosity, what was Deadjacket's question? Was it further back in the thread? I can't find it and I'm a little confused, so I apologise if I'm covering ground here that's already been discussed between the two of you.
Isn't = is not. When used in place of is not, isn't is grammatically correct.
LOL and BTW should not be used in formal writing or in speech so I'm not sure why that's relevant.
OK has been used for several hundred years, with documented usage in the 18th and 19th centuries.
There's a differece between the natural evolution of a language, and just using terrible grammar because you don't know better or you can't be bothered to speak properly.
In my experience, people from other countries can speak better English than many English people. I have a German friend and a Spanish friend who speak perfect English. Their written English is absolutely superb. Their spelling, punctuation and grammar are better than the majority of English people (and probably Welsh and Scottish and Irish, though I have little experience of that).
There are two reasons for that:
1. They learn English academically. They don't learn bad habits from lazy English people who can't be bothered to speak properly or are so uneducated that they never learned how.
2. They aren't afraid to ask for help. In fact, unlike English people who go crazy and act grossly offended when you correct them, my foreign friends LOVE it when I point out where they're wrong. Then they can correct it and learn to speak better.
Very few people are perfect. I'm sure I'm not. I'm sure I make mistakes and I love it when people point them out so that I can learn from them and try to improve. There are certain basic errors that just shouldn't be made, though.