Originally Posted by Monkseal:
“It cuts both ways - I never saw anyone talk about their desire to inflict physical injury (slapping, hitting, choking, throwing things at) John Sergeant. I saw people say that repeatedly about Lisa Snowdon.
I don't think there's a tendency to like the sympathy vote candidates here, but I do think the most hated celebrity usually ends up as someone who scores very highly and makes it very far. Basic human psychology would suggest that it's because people feel, on a subconscious level, their favourite is threatened (this might explain the John Sergeant stuff, as people genuinely believed, for whatever reason, that he was a threat to win).
Certainly I look back to some of the ways I thought about Gethin towards the end of his series, and realised it was mostly because I was convinced he was going to beat my favourite. I never really disliked him at all. And that's a hallmark of a lot of posts against the leading hate figures - people talk about not knowing why they dislike someone but "they just do", or accusing them of nebulous or meaningless things like "being fake".
I'm not saying sometimes someone doesn't crawl under your skin like a bug and gnaw away at you, but some times it might be worth thinking about.”
Great post and I too have been guilty of not really knowing why I've disliked a good dancer in the past, and (
with the exception of Darren Gough, who I really did not like at all) you've probably hit the nail on the head. Which is probably why I tend to champion the "no-hopers" as it can get quite vicious on here if you do support a good dancer. Last year I hardly posted about my support for Rachel and Vincent because I really didn't need the grief.
Interestingly in work we were all agreed that we didn't like Tom, I loved Rachel and Vincent and got lots of "friendly" stick about it and the rest of the team were all supporting Lisa (
mind you I got my revenge with "that" showdance 
) However, we ALL happily agreed that Tom's showdance was fab and he deserved to win on the night because of it. Mind you his showdance didn't wash with my Mum who loved Austin Healy and felt that Tom shouldn't have been in the final at all!
I suppose what I'm trying to say in the above is that although we all enjoyed watching SCD we all supported different people. Yet, we never fell out about or became nasty, vicious or spiteful to each other or about the person someone supported. The problem with writing on a forum is that we can't see "how" someone is saying something. Even though someone may just be making an observation/comment it can at times appear to be a personal attack.
It really shouldn't matter who someone supports and honest criticism is always a good read. I enjoyed the comments in the thread about Ricky's feet, something even his most loyal followers agreed with the OP on. However, I do get cross when someone posts a load of tosh about a celeb just to start a "flamefest". I wasn't a great fan of Emma Bunton but, even I found myself sticking up for her because of some of the nonsense people were posting. This year I'm actually supporting the "perceived" threat and have felt like hitting the screen when I read some of the snidey comments that are made up about him. My favourite is still the poster who complained about him getting a 9 when the guy got all 8s!