Originally Posted by
Lalabinks:
“Some people would do well to remember that Matthew C wouldn't be as popular as he is now if it wasn't for Alesha.
I think some people hate Alesha because they don't like seeing a young woman from humble beginnings trying to better herself.
I'm glad she had the courage to say what Zoe and James weren't able to say. And she did what SCD judges are supposed to do - she created controversy.
Alesha will need to learn you can't be a successful woman in this world without being hated.”
Oh my


I rarely have a go at someone's post but this one made me actually laugh so much I spat out my morning tea !
I think everyone in the dance world will just have wet their pants laughing at your first comment - I certainly did!
I think it is the other way around! Mr Cutler's record speaks for itself and he is also now, (as from May this year), also a properly qualified judge. The fact is that it is Strictly as a
whole which has made the dancers be so much in the public eye and therefore "popular" and household names in reality tv terms, not just one person.
and I think your ill-thought-out post says so much more about you than it does about other people - the comment above about people hating Alesha because she is trying to better herself after having come from humble beginnings is utterly laughable!
For me, I don't give a single sod where she comes from - I actually do not care.
What I DO care about is whether she does a good and appropriate job in the position she has been contracted to fulfil.
And I do not consider, by the comments she made, that she IS.
Fair enough, speak the truth, and it is not always palatable - but there is a way to deliver such comments when you have been given the privilege of being a judge on this show, judging (without credentials) the sheer hard work the professionals do with their celebs - and they deserve at least respect for that work, even if the end result is poor.
Making your comments so clearly personal and vindictive is not the way - its simply not professional. To me, the judges, in their comments, by judging the celebs, also judge the work the
pro has done with that celeb, and Alesha to me in her comments last night also damned the work Flavia has done with Craig, with little thought or respect for all that, only for her own desire to "out" her own very personal prejudice, and that is just not on.
We all have our own likes and very strong dislikes - of course, that is natural - but we are not judges on the show - she IS - and to judge, you must put your own personal feeling aside and comment FAIRLY on the dance, be those comments good or bad - they should not be personal like these were.
I do not wish to speak for others, but it is this that has upset me about her, not wishing it would all go against her because of her "dragging herself up" as you naiively suggest - I think you have sorely missed the point in your post.
I didn't want it to be bad for her - no way - but, sadly, it is - and it is by her own hand.
I think its called "biting the hand that feeds you".
Well done Alesha ! you pressed your own self-destruct button yet again!