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Danyl-a victim or a villain?
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Hannahlovely
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by bbted:
“I cant understand how Chelry cole who attacked someone in a ladies loo, can dish out the dirt on Danyl... she started all the bulley rumours again POT KETTLE BLACK me thinks”

I think Cheryl haven't given Danyl a chance. It seems to me she made up her mind about him and nothing can change it. Which is a real shame.
Tfan26
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by jon_ellacott:
“Would you care to elaborate to why???”

Victim: because the press do fabricate stuff and the netizens are harsh on him (hitler and stuff)

Villian: some of those things he brings upon himself with his bad attitude and big ego
neelia
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by yawalloper:
“On that basis you would struggle to believe absolutely anything you read or hear in the media in general. Pretty much every single story anywhere is second hand information which is being fed through a reporter no matter what your media of choice is.”

I don't struggle at all. I referred to tabloids not the media in general but even then I need to have faith in the source.
rivercity_rules
22-11-2009
For me, Villain.

Perhaps initially a victim, but just can't sympathise with him any longer.
Gotham
22-11-2009
I never ever like to see someone be character assasinated by the tabloid media. I think he's a victim, I mean how is Danyl "cocky" but Olly is just "confident"?
yawalloper
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by neelia:
“I don't struggle at all. I referred to tabloids not the media in general but even then I need to have faith in the source.”

You either ignored or didn't understand my quote. Nomatter, I've said my piece.
elena
22-11-2009
I find it very difficult to disagree with many on here stating that there's been an awful lot of character assassination going on and for that reason Danyl is a victim.

However I do think he has brought some of it on himself (whether he deserves it or not is another matter...)

Danyl strikes me as an individual who cares very much about what people think of him - he seems a little insecure at times, like the whole Twitter mess that's been going on. To that end, I'm not sure he has the right temperament to be a celebrity. If you're in the headlines, you're going to get crap thrown at you - it's unfortunately the nature of celebrity. When everyone knows your name there's going to be some people who dislike you. You simply cannot please everyone.

To this end, someone going for that goal in life is going to have to develop very thick skin and think "sod this". I think Danyl's starting to develop that attitude but it's come too late and the damage has been done.

The person I blame the most in all this is Cowell (who has been absolutely shocking in his behaviour and his decision-making this year). You do not tell an impressionable person they just gave the best first audition ever before a single vote has been cast. You don't go around singing his praises in the US. You build him up. Cowell gave Danyl too much praise and that made Danyl himself think he was loved and unbeatable. Unfortunately that made him ripe picking for a backlash.

Firstly I blame Cowell. Then the press. Then Danyl. A large part of this is not his fault and for that reason he's largely a victim. But as I said earlier, there have been certain decisions he's made and ways he's reacted that have just invited more of it.
neelia
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by yawalloper:
“You either ignored or didn't understand my quote. Nomatter, I've said my piece.”

I did neither unless you meant something other than you said. I do not beleive the tabloids as they have a history of twisting stories out of all recognition to the truth and it was the tabloids I was tlaking about.

The rest of the media tend not to deal in tittle tattle. If the BBC tells me that the interest rate is going up by 1% I will tend to beleive it as they have no motivation to lie and it it is wrong it can be corrected.
mgvsmith
22-11-2009
Victim and not deserving of it.
broadshoulder
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by elena:
“I find it very difficult to disagree with many on here stating that there's been an awful lot of character assassination going on and for that reason Danyl is a victim.

However I do think he has brought some of it on himself (whether he deserves it or not is another matter...)

Danyl strikes me as an individual who cares very much about what people think of him - he seems a little insecure at times, like the whole Twitter mess that's been going on. To that end, I'm not sure he has the right temperament to be a celebrity. If you're in the headlines, you're going to get crap thrown at you - it's unfortunately the nature of celebrity. When everyone knows your name there's going to be some people who dislike you. You simply cannot please everyone.

To this end, someone going for that goal in life is going to have to develop very thick skin and think "sod this". I think Danyl's starting to develop that attitude but it's come too late and the damage has been done.

The person I blame the most in all this is Cowell (who has been absolutely shocking in his behaviour and his decision-making this year). You do not tell an impressionable person they just gave the best first audition ever before a single vote has been cast. You don't go around singing his praises in the US. You build him up. Cowell gave Danyl too much praise and that made Danyl himself think he was loved and unbeatable. Unfortunately that made him ripe picking for a backlash.

Firstly I blame Cowell. Then the press. Then Danyl. A large part of this is not his fault and for that reason he's largely a victim. But as I said earlier, there have been certain decisions he's made and ways he's reacted that have just invited more of it.”

First rule of the bully is "he brought it on himself, it wasnt me governor. Ee was asking for it..."
Odd Socks
22-11-2009
None of us here know Danyl, we see the bloke on the TV and we read the stories in the newspaper.

I'm a Danyl fan and for all I know he could well be a right get. I don't know that as much as someone who dislikes him doesn't know he's the next Mother Theresa.

The personal attacks on him have been horrendous, the onslaught is really difficult to see.

Even if the guy is a grumpy get with an inflated ego, he absolutely does not deserve the victimisation he's receiving. Nobody does.

FFS, he didn't murder anyone, he's not evil! He's a bloke on a talent show. That's all.
kate_fkn_does
22-11-2009
When I look at Danyl, for some odd reason, I see a lot of myself.

I am going to say that he's probably both a villain and a victim. Victim because he has inspired so much hate that is almost disgusting. Villain because he hasn't really done himself any favours if the press are to be believed.

I think that he's probably just confused by the whole thing. He has a lot of talent but he is getting bashed from pilar to post and I get the impression that a lot of the other contestants aren't quite so... anal about things as he is.

Do I believe all of what I read in the papers? No. Do I think that some of it is probably true under that? Yes. Does that mean he deserves to be hated on? No.

So take that as you will...
elena
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by broadshoulder:
“First rule of the bully is "he brought it on himself, it wasnt me governor. Ee was asking for it..."”

Are you implying I'm a bully for saying that?

At the end of the day some people's may not be in the right frame of mind to take criticism and if that's the case, sometimes it invites more criticism. I'm not saying that's right, I'm just saying it's a factor. I resent having someone call me a bully for saying that.
tommygunner
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by elena:
“Are you implying I'm a bully for saying that?

At the end of the day some people's may not be in the right frame of mind to take criticism and if that's the case, sometimes it invites more criticism. I'm not saying that's right, I'm just saying it's a factor. I resent having someone call me a bully for saying that.”

And so you should. Your post is thoughtful, well-reasoned, and in no way mean-spirited. Some of Danyl's behaviour in the face of criticism and frustration hasn't helped him. There is nothing hateful or bullying about pointing that out.
Lizzy11268
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by tommygunner:
“And so you should. Your post is thoughtful, well-reasoned, and in no way mean-spirited. Some of Danyl's behaviour in the face of criticism and frustration hasn't helped him. There is nothing hateful or bullying about pointing that out.”

I agree. I also agree that Danyl has not really helped himself, but I can't really blame him for that when I have no idea how I myself would react in such a situation.

Luckily I have no creative talent whatsoever, so I seriously doubt I will ever become press fodder!
lux lisbon 2
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by Lizzy11268:
“Danyl is a victim as are John and Edward, of certain sections of the so called "press". I would not accuse any individual person of jumping on a "bandwagon" but of course there are those members of the public who do.

I can't speak to Danyl's personality as I have never met the man and refuse, however much people may try to make me, of judging him on hearsay, rumour and gossip.

The problem being of course, that whilst enough of us buy these newspapers, post links on forums such as these, and fan the flames, things will never be any different. Its telling I think, to me at least, that these "bullying" stories are not to be found in any newspaper that I read, even though there are X Factor articles in them. Its the ones I wouldnt wipe my a*** on, let alone buy, that are the culprits.

Some say that J & E have had it easier because the outcry against them has not been so "personal". Well, I don't buy into that either. Death threats for crying out loud? I can't believe it is just me who thinks " What? Over a tv show? Over people trying to better their lives and follow a dream?"

Its a sad state of affairs, but there are certain people who are not happy unless they are bringing someone else down. I just have to be very very grateful that I have no-one like that in my life.

Danyl may well not be a "nice guy". The only people that can or should judge that are the people who know him. He seems to have plenty of friends, so I guess he is not all bad. He's probably not all good either. I keep saying it, but it bears saying again :

Some people claim to know Danyl and say he is awful. Some people claim to know Danyl and say he is lovely. So, the only thing I can extrapolate from that, if I were to think about it at all is:

He is a human being. A person who gets on well with some and not so much with others. Some people warm to him, some people don't. Basically, he is the same as every single one of us.

What Danyl and J&E have had to put up with is unacceptable under ANY circumstances, let alone the one they find themselves in. Anyone who thinks otherwise, whether they like him or not, are the ones who need to take a long look in the mirror.”

Very good post Lizzie.
rsefitpro2009
22-11-2009
Well in posting the original thread I don't really know what the truth is.

However by watching Danyl sing, I feel hes getting alot of stick, and for me Cheryl can't stand him!

That said when he's criticised he needs to respond better, one week he gave up and just didn't give it anything.

I feel he's just their to sing, and the audacity of Cherly Cole, inparticular to say he was a bit flat and the criticism of him being over confident is way over the top.

He won't win the show and i feel a % of that will be down to the criticism and the press he has been getting.
elena
22-11-2009
Thanks tommygunner and lizzy

I must admit that sometimes I can be a little over-harsh on Danyl (again probably Simon's fault as I am naturally suspicious of anyone telling me I should love someone and that they're the best thing since sliced bread). It's sometimes necessary to take a step back and realise there's a human being there. I just have this horrible feeling that he makes it worse for himself by his reactions at times.
Odd Socks
22-11-2009
Originally Posted by elena:
“Thanks tommygunner and lizzy

I must admit that sometimes I can be a little over-harsh on Danyl (again probably Simon's fault as I am naturally suspicious of anyone telling me I should love someone and that they're the best thing since sliced bread). It's sometimes necessary to take a step back and realise there's a human being there. I just have this horrible feeling that he makes it worse for himself by his reactions at times.”

It's his reactions that show just how human and unprepared he is for all of this.
JoHo
22-11-2009
He has brought it on hisself
Dulcie135
22-11-2009
He's a victim - every year there has to be a contestant that we're encouraged to hate. If it wasn't there it would be one of the others.
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