Originally Posted by kimindex:
“Totally agree. It manifests itself mostly when someone asks a question about, say, which is your fav jar of some sauce or other or a bought soup, and people sneer and provide you with recipes you haven't asked for (even ones they say they haven't tried themselves!). Yes, mostly, people can make those recipes (and can look them up themselves, if they want to) but, sometimes, they want some other information and a short cut for whatever reason.
Some people are fond of telling people that 'anyone has enough time to...'. That's subjective and someone might, on that day, want to use that time for something else.”
I am sad to read what you've written. For me, I love seeing recipes that other people use, and if someone posted a recipe for me for their version of thai green curry paste instead of me using a jar (which I do rather than bother to make it myself), then I wouldn't be offended and think they're saying I should make it myself. I would be happy that they've shared their knowledge and even though I can't be arsed to make my own paste (or whatever the recipe might be for), there may be someone who will use it. (I've found lots of ideas and recipes on here that I wouldn't have seen if people hadn't posted their recipes unasked!)
What is also sad now that we've had a few negative threads on here, is that I'm being extra careful about what I write or about which threads I answer - before, if I made a joke, it would be taken as such. Now, it could be taken as something else. It's a real pity. And I'm a bit pissed off about it tbh.
Last para not aimed at you kimindex, just a general rant.