Whilst I do think Jason has, at times, gone way too far this series in his"feedback" to Gary and Sharron I did think a few times this series that Gary was playing the 'cute daughter' card a few times more than necessary. It struck me a bit like the sob-stories in X-Factor and BGT that we see a lot of, where winning will mean so much to the contestant's children/village/dead relative/etc. I don't remember Suzanne playing the 'cure son' card in her series - 'I want to win it for Corey'. Likewise, I don't think jessica ever mentioned wanting to get through so she could skate Bolero for her mum until after she'd been eliminated.
(I'm happy to be corrected if I'm wrong by the way!)
As for Gary directly - yes, he is a good skater, very good. However, his overall performances left me bored and I never voted for him because of this. I had a big grin on my face last night after both Hayley and Kieron's performances (and some of Daniella's and Danny's earlier in the series). Gary just left me cold, so I understand what Jason meant about him not 'selling the performance'. I suppose it depends on what you're focusing on how you judge the whole thing - is it about the DANCING, or the ON ICE bit that you focus on? As someone with little expertise in either area, it's a combination of both, but if I feel that someone is only good at both aspects will I vote for them. If I was only looking at the DANCING bit I wouldn't have been a fan of Gary's either.