Source: http://programmes.stv.tv/dancing-on-...d-my-marriage/

It's a shame about this. She seems a very nice girl and her ex is obviously very stupid for doing it and she's done nothing wrong in it.

We've only heard her side on this how can anyone really know whats gone on for sure, and as for saying the show ruined things well she chose to do the show, plenty others have done the show and its not ruined their relationships now has it??

I do understand we've only heard her side of the story but I doubt whenever she first decided to do the show this is what she thought and her story does make sense.

She seems a really nice person as well. And it obviously is her fiance's fault as he's the one who cheated on her.

Ever heard of David Seaman?

Perhaps you're not very experienced with being in a relationship that results in a betrothal but every relationship is different so you can't compare them.

I think it's sad that she has mentioned her doing DOI as a factor because in my eyes she should not blame herself for this.

If her fiance was unhappy with her spending too much time training for the show then he should have had a conversation with her about it not shag another woman behind her back.

Yep this is exactly what he should have done.

Maybe she should have spent less time gushing over Daniel Whiston on the show and more time remembering she actually had a fiance. Don't remember her ever even mentioning him, while it was all about how much she loved Dan (even though it obviously wasn't going to be that sort of a relationship with Dan. Maybe the poor fiance felt a bit emotionally betrayed by the way she behaved around Dan.

Again, he should have talked to her not bedded someone else. He cheated, she did nothing wrong.

The show was all about her and Dan skating, not about her and her fiance! Did the other contestants mention their other half? Not that I can recall, apart from Tana Ramsey, and that was because she was a non entity and her husband was more worthy of the celeb status than her. We heard all about Matthew moving in to live with Daniella, has she got a partner at home?

Danniella's married to the father of her daughter I think, she's definitly married as I remember her saying it was her husband's idea for Matt to move in. And Mikey's married cause his wife visited one week and Gary Lucy has a daughter but he never mentioned her.

I agree about even if she liked Dan she considered him a friend and it's not like she was having an affair with him.

The other contestants weren't all over their DOI partners the way Hayley was - she definietly gave off vibes which if I'd have been her fiance sat at home watching would have upset me. She gushed over Dan so much I found it embarrassing to watch.

I believe Daniella mentioned it was her husband's idea for Matt to move in didn't she?

I'm not saying what her fiance did was right but I don't think Hayley was entirely blameless. It's incredibly hurtful when your partner appears to care more about someone else regardless if there is a 'physical' relationship. Hayley acted like someone in love with Daniel in public.

I could say a whole lot more on this subject but I wont..............

Very wise Tracey, very wise

I like Hayley, but I must say she does seem to relish the role of the hard done by victim. During the show......she never stopped tweeting about every single injury... and how she was bravely keeping going despite them....and thanking everyone ENDLESSLY for their support during her many ailments. It all got a bit me me me me me.... pity me... pity me... pity me..... I got fed up with it.

Now its repeat performance ... on twitter she is going on and on about how she is holding up.. and thanking everyone for their support again... its like groundhog day.

I have no idea what the reality of her situation is and what really went on.... but I do agree with others.... her idolisation of Dan during the show was .... well.... ODD to say the least. It was so over the top, I often wonder if he felt completely smothered by it, or is he just as into her (as a friend obviously!!). It was interesting that she would tweet constantly about where she and Dan were having dinner EACH night.... I used to wonder why was she not at home with her partner during these hours. Anyhoo.... obviously not to be in the end.

It may come as a bit of a surprise to some people but, out of all the celebs on the last series of DOI, Hayley is the only one who keeps in regular contact with the people who have, and still do, support her. She has had endless messages sent to her, each day, wishing her well and encouraging her. She can't have the time to reply to each one individually so posts general replies. If she didn't post the replies, she'd be criticized for ignoring people - she can't win.

As for her dining with Dan each night, they were in London and her fiance was in Leeds. She and Dan have been good friends for many years so their relationship will be different to the other contestants.

This seems to be turning into another opportunity for the Hayley Bashers sharpened talons to be exercised, for God's sake give the girl a break!

Hayley has a habbit of fabricating the truth to suit herself, various examples come to mind but obvious one was her blog stating she flew home with Dan after the tour ended, this did not happen as he left several hrs before her on a different flight to a different airport now tell me she was truthful about that???
And another one was she told everyone she got her skate necklace from her agent after winning yet she was wearing in on Thi Morning before she won the list goes on......

People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!

Either way he was unfaithful.

This.

Hayley said she liked Daniel but she didn't have an affair with him where as her fiance had an affair. All the time the female celebs say how great their pro has been but there's never been any romance between a pro and their celeb. Emily made it clear she fancied Fred and she had a boyfriend but he didn't cheat on her cause she liked Fred. If everyone cheated on someone because their partner fancied someone else then no couples would be together.

But there was a massive difference between how Emily behaved with Fred and how Hayley behaved with Dan off the ice in the VT's. And an affair is not just a physical thing but an emotional connection and it certainly appeared that Hayley only had eyes for Daniel to the extent I was cringing with embarrassment when she was gushing over him sometimes and it was way beyond 'just a friendship'. I had loads of very close male friends for years but I'd never have behaved the way Hayley did with Dan. That was something else......

In fact for myself I'd prefer my hubby had a one night stand than a long lasting emotional/romantic style exclusive relationship with someone which is at least as damaging if not more so.

Besides my real beef is that until the boyfriend's side of the story is heard I think it's wrong to lay the blame solely on him when Hayley's behaviour came over to the average viewer as that of someone madly in love - and not with her fiance. I think that takes away her claim to being the innocent injured party.

Yeh but surely Hayley's hubby to be knew that there would never be anything between Dan and Hayley. She gushed about him sure and she obviously fancied him years ago but she's not stupid and neither is he. Her hubby to be should have talked to her about their problems. Having an affair doesn't help now does it?

Also there is no way Fred would have had an affair with Emily jeez not only was she an immature child he's married to Mel.

If my man ever cheated on me emotionally involved or not he would be out the door like a shot.

Hayley was very dignified in what she said in the newspaper article, and did shoulder some of the blame. Having been good friends with Dan for so long her fiance knew Dan well, in fact, wasn't there another newspaper article about how Dan was going to be the best man at their wedding? Hardly something that would have happened unless Dan was very close to both Hayley and her fiance. So, if her fiance was comfortable with Hayley and Dan's relationship, why are people (who don't know Hayley, her fiance and Dan) questioning it on here? If someone finds it embarrassing or awkward at how Hayley behaved towards Dan then that's their problem, not Hayley's.

And as for hearing his side of the story, I notice he hasn't exactly rushed forward to correct anything that Hayley has said that he deems to be misleading.

And I guess Rumbled that you know Hayley, Dan and Darren soooo well that it gives you the right to believe everything Hayley says to some rag the SAME rag that Hayley was telling fans NOT to believe a few short months ago.......

Am I missing something?.....Why the speculation about Haley's infatuation with Dan, as far as I know Dan is openly gay and has a partner, Haley must know this so why would she pursue a man she can't have!

If I knew Hayley, Dan and Darren soooo well, I wouldn't have to read a newspaper, I'd know! I haven't made any reference to what/who I believe in the newspaper article, I'm not that stupid or cynical. Like you said at the beginning, "We've only heard her side on this how can anyone really know whats gone on for sure"

It's rather sad that people are taking the opportunity of Hayley's difficult personal circumstances to have a bitch about her and for one two-faced person to be stabbing her in the back.