actually i thought it was a good conversation, some sound advice, j has the best idea if they dont become lovers they will be great friends, i thought j sounded very sincere there if he wants to go with other girls and they were only friends that would be fine. i am sure they will be sexual for a while but nothing may come of it. but friends for life.
The John James & Josie Appreciation Thread [Part 14]
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Originally Posted by jinxed1:
“Josie said she would go mad if JJ argued with Jo - I wonder if she'd feel the same if she'd heard some of the things Jo has said about him.”
“Josie said she would go mad if JJ argued with Jo - I wonder if she'd feel the same if she'd heard some of the things Jo has said about him.”
did she really say this? no we will sit back and watch jo egging for an arguement with jj,
imo she is so jelous of their relationship that she is trying to get between them, hence why shes spewing her poison to anyone who will listen. steve, mario etc, she trys to put doubts in josies mind.
josie saying she will go mad if he argues with jo is enough for her to now become more vocal within his earshot for him to take the bait. just watch
and then watch josie and jj bite at each other. 
i only hope josie is clever enough to know what jo is up to, but somehow coz jo is triple faced i doubt josie has a clue.
Jo is trying to be a good friend. She's doing the best she can based on what she knows. Where she's going wrong is that she really doesn't get or understand JJ, that's not really her fault either because people who've been out here for 9 odd weeks watching him still don't get him and we've seen and heard way more than anyone in the house has.
Jose is a girl's girl in that she needs a mucker to talk her feelings out with. She's a talker when it comes to her feelings whether it be good or bad, she needs to vent them which is why people have accused her of bitching or being manipulative in a group, she's not at all she just can't help herself from expressing how she feels. The one person she has trouble sometimes expressing herself to though is JJ because she wants to tell him but at the same time is always trying to protect herself.
Jose is a girl's girl in that she needs a mucker to talk her feelings out with. She's a talker when it comes to her feelings whether it be good or bad, she needs to vent them which is why people have accused her of bitching or being manipulative in a group, she's not at all she just can't help herself from expressing how she feels. The one person she has trouble sometimes expressing herself to though is JJ because she wants to tell him but at the same time is always trying to protect herself.
Originally Posted by Mintcar:
“See, I don't see it as Jo stirring. I see it as Jo giving objectivity. i.e - don't worry - you'll still be friends.
She's not saying 'oh god, he's using you, can't you see that'. or 'he'll be all over other girls like a rash when he's out of here'.
I don't watch LF all the time - so I can't comment. But I personally don't think she is being malicious? Probably wrong though
”
“See, I don't see it as Jo stirring. I see it as Jo giving objectivity. i.e - don't worry - you'll still be friends.
She's not saying 'oh god, he's using you, can't you see that'. or 'he'll be all over other girls like a rash when he's out of here'.
I don't watch LF all the time - so I can't comment. But I personally don't think she is being malicious? Probably wrong though
”
Yeah she does that but they drops little comments into the conversation which are not nice. In that convo she said - he seems like the sort of person who could switch at any minute - unpredictable but good that Josie is a calming influence (this once Josie had tried to stick up for him).
I do not trust Jo at all
wow anyone seen the betting odds josie flying into 2nd place her odds have well shorten and corin has drifted
Originally Posted by marmite04:
“did she really say this? no we will sit back and watch jo egging for an arguement with jj,
imo she is so jelous of their relationship that she is trying to get between them, hence why shes spewing her poison to anyone who will listen. steve, mario etc, she trys to put doubts in josies mind.
josie saying she will go mad if he argues with jo is enough for her to now become more vocal within his earshot for him to take the bait. just watch and then watch josie and jj bite at each other.
i only hope josie is clever enough to know what jo is up to, but somehow coz jo is triple faced i doubt josie has a clue.”
“did she really say this? no we will sit back and watch jo egging for an arguement with jj,
imo she is so jelous of their relationship that she is trying to get between them, hence why shes spewing her poison to anyone who will listen. steve, mario etc, she trys to put doubts in josies mind.
josie saying she will go mad if he argues with jo is enough for her to now become more vocal within his earshot for him to take the bait. just watch
and then watch josie and jj bite at each other. i only hope josie is clever enough to know what jo is up to, but somehow coz jo is triple faced i doubt josie has a clue.”
yep - Josie has just given Jo the ammo she needs.
JJ knows that Jo doesn't like him so I hope he doesn't bite if Jo tries to start anything. Hopefully he will just do what he did with Ben and use nominations as a way to get back at her
Originally Posted by Mintcar:
“Awwwwwwwwwww Josie.
That shows that you truly love him.”
“Awwwwwwwwwww Josie.
That shows that you truly love him.”
Tell us what happened, have no feed at the moment.
Jose is talking out of her ***, intellectually she probably believes she'd be cool with JJ going off with another girl and to some extent she would ie it's no use trying to hold onto something or someone that doesn't belong to you. Emotionally I think she'd extremley hurt. There's a saying though if you love someone let them go, if they don't come back to you they were never yours to begin with, if they do they'll be yours forever.
Originally Posted by Mintcar:
“See, I don't see it as Jo stirring. I see it as Jo giving objectivity. i.e - don't worry - you'll still be friends.
She's not saying 'oh god, he's using you, can't you see that'. or 'he'll be all over other girls like a rash when he's out of here'.
I don't watch LF all the time - so I can't comment. But I personally don't think she is being malicious? Probably wrong though”
“See, I don't see it as Jo stirring. I see it as Jo giving objectivity. i.e - don't worry - you'll still be friends.
She's not saying 'oh god, he's using you, can't you see that'. or 'he'll be all over other girls like a rash when he's out of here'.
I don't watch LF all the time - so I can't comment. But I personally don't think she is being malicious? Probably wrong though
”
I agree I actually think Jo likes Josie and I suspect from what she sees (like most people) she thinks Josie could be hurt.
TBF Josie isn't totally honest about the relationship all the time with the girls.
Originally Posted by Aella:
“Jose is talking out of her ***, intellectually she probably believes she'd be cool with JJ going off with another girl and to some extent she would ie it's no use trying to hold onto something or someone that doesn't belong to you. Emotionally I think she'd extremley hurt. There's a saying though if you love someone let them go, if they don't come back to you they were never yours to begin with, if they do they'll be yours forever.”
“Jose is talking out of her ***, intellectually she probably believes she'd be cool with JJ going off with another girl and to some extent she would ie it's no use trying to hold onto something or someone that doesn't belong to you. Emotionally I think she'd extremley hurt. There's a saying though if you love someone let them go, if they don't come back to you they were never yours to begin with, if they do they'll be yours forever.”
I thought it you siad it
on main forum on the latest news, it says that dave is the only one to know marios secret, i thought dave said last night he feels hes the only one that doesnt.
maybe i was drinking too much or is bb not watching as usual
maybe i was drinking too much or is bb not watching as usual
Morning again
I come back from trying to do some healthy exercise and find we're on #14 and J has retreated back to them being muckers. Sigh, can't leave them for 5 mins.
Also, very glad that things have calmed down with SP
I come back from trying to do some healthy exercise and find we're on #14 and J has retreated back to them being muckers. Sigh, can't leave them for 5 mins.
Also, very glad that things have calmed down with SP
Originally Posted by conchie:
“I really hope that Jo does not instigate some situation to set John off over the next day or so...........and if she did, I hope John has the wisdom to know exactly what she is up to and ignore her.”
“I really hope that Jo does not instigate some situation to set John off over the next day or so...........and if she did, I hope John has the wisdom to know exactly what she is up to and ignore her.”
Ooops wrong thread!
How did that happen
sometimes I wish Josie would not talk about her relationship with John to the others........and keep it privately to themselves.
Start again......
Good morning everyone.
Last night was hilarious, Andrew is never going to live it down!
Good morning everyone.
Last night was hilarious, Andrew is never going to live it down!
Anyone else think Josie would've had a much easier life if she had've just fallen for JJ2??!!
Of course we'd all be bored...
Of course we'd all be bored...
Originally Posted by conchie:
“sometimes I wish Josie would not talk about her relationship with John to the others........and keep it privately to themselves.”
“sometimes I wish Josie would not talk about her relationship with John to the others........and keep it privately to themselves.”
100% Agree...Not making great viewing.
Originally Posted by STACYG:
“Start again......
Good morning everyone.
Last night was hilarious, Andrew is never going to live it down!”
“Start again......
Good morning everyone.
Last night was hilarious, Andrew is never going to live it down!
”
Can't wait for the HL on that one
Originally Posted by smile6uk:
“100% Agree...Not making great viewing.”
“100% Agree...Not making great viewing.
”
But how else is she meant to vent her feelings? I can totally understand why she does it
Originally Posted by Dutchgirly23:
“Tell us what happened, have no feed at the moment.”
“Tell us what happened, have no feed at the moment.”
She said that she wouldn't blame him from 'going out there and getting lots of attention from girls' or wtte. Although he wouldn't use them, 'cos he's not like that with girls. She loves him enough to let him go in other words...........
Originally Posted by conchie:
“sometimes I wish Josie would not talk about her relationship with John to the others........and keep it privately to themselves.”
“sometimes I wish Josie would not talk about her relationship with John to the others........and keep it privately to themselves.”
Same.
I know she's looking for reasurance but it does make me slighlty uncomftbale, even though its becoming more apparent to the group.
I must say I'm glad she had those 2 convos with Corin the One the morning after he told her hhe feels the same and the snogging one but i stil if john asked her not to, she shouldnt.
Originally Posted by Aella:
“Jose is talking out of her ***, intellectually she probably believes she'd be cool with JJ going off with another girl and to some extent she would ie it's no use trying to hold onto something or someone that doesn't belong to you. Emotionally I think she'd extremley hurt. There's a saying though if you love someone let them go, if they don't come back to you they were never yours to begin with, if they do they'll be yours forever.”
“Jose is talking out of her ***, intellectually she probably believes she'd be cool with JJ going off with another girl and to some extent she would ie it's no use trying to hold onto something or someone that doesn't belong to you. Emotionally I think she'd extremley hurt. There's a saying though if you love someone let them go, if they don't come back to you they were never yours to begin with, if they do they'll be yours forever.”
My boyfriend 'let me go' - twice. I came back to him and I am his forever. We are now married with 2 kids.
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