Originally Posted by without_reason:
“I have seen many "fights" and this was well at the tame and under control end of the spectrum. It may have been unconfortable viewing for some people and that is fine - you do of course have a choice over what you watch when its on TV.
By using the word fight in this context we begin to devalue it. Just in the way the word racism and homophobia and bullying are used in these forumns. We may well be witnessing mild forms of these things but just to pick an example at random - if we start describing as a fight what happened in the house. then what of fights where people are actually injured? or killed?
Genuine strong emotions do sometimes make for uncomforable viewing because we are so used to the hyper controlled and sanitised foder the television normally feeds us. This is a million miles away from the actuall reality of the situation.
Call it a fight if you wish but this is a little like me bumping my car against a post while parking and calling it a road accident.”
“I have seen many "fights" and this was well at the tame and under control end of the spectrum. It may have been unconfortable viewing for some people and that is fine - you do of course have a choice over what you watch when its on TV.
By using the word fight in this context we begin to devalue it. Just in the way the word racism and homophobia and bullying are used in these forumns. We may well be witnessing mild forms of these things but just to pick an example at random - if we start describing as a fight what happened in the house. then what of fights where people are actually injured? or killed?
Genuine strong emotions do sometimes make for uncomforable viewing because we are so used to the hyper controlled and sanitised foder the television normally feeds us. This is a million miles away from the actuall reality of the situation.
Call it a fight if you wish but this is a little like me bumping my car against a post while parking and calling it a road accident.”
From dictionary.com:
fight
v. fought, (fôt) fight·ing, fights
v. intr.
1
a)To attempt to harm or gain power over an adversary by blows or with weapons.
b)Sports. To engage in boxing or wrestling.
2
To engage in a quarrel; argue: They are always fighting about money.
3
To strive vigorously and resolutely: fought against graft; fighting for her rights.
So to call it a fight is exactly what it was. Yes I had the choice not to view, & in many parts I did look away.
As for it being reality - as Ive already said it was a manufactured situation.
But as that night has been talked about enough, I think best to leave it at that. We clearly have different views on the matter. And its good to hear other opinions. But is side-tracking from the treatment of Michelle.




