Message to Katkim - Susann has mentioned elsewhere that she would have like to pay her respects and pass on her sympathy to you at this time, but as you know she has de-registered from DS. Hope she does not mind that I have passed on this message.
The Bennites Brigade (Part 5)
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Thanks guys. It's been a rough end of a year and start of a year. The funeral is on Tuesday.
I just feel so incredibly sad (no other real way to describe it) although I've been touched with all the support I've been getting from extended family, RL friends and online friends.
And I've been trying to get back to normally - including posting on DS, and smiling at silly posts and gossiping about tv shows and people in showbiz, and looking forward to hearing Ben back on the radio after his holidays. I've missed the past few shows.
Hugs to you all!
I just feel so incredibly sad (no other real way to describe it) although I've been touched with all the support I've been getting from extended family, RL friends and online friends.
And I've been trying to get back to normally - including posting on DS, and smiling at silly posts and gossiping about tv shows and people in showbiz, and looking forward to hearing Ben back on the radio after his holidays. I've missed the past few shows.
Hugs to you all!
Hi Katkims my sympathies are with you, just be strong babes.
((((((Big hugs to you too, take care xxxx)))))))))
((((((Big hugs to you too, take care xxxx)))))))))
Originally Posted by glitterlady08:
“Hi Katkims my sympathies are with you, just be strong babes.
((((((Big hugs to you too, take care xxxx)))))))))”
“Hi Katkims my sympathies are with you, just be strong babes.
((((((Big hugs to you too, take care xxxx)))))))))”
Katkim - don't be too strong to cry and really feel what has happened
Being strong is not the only response - you will be feeling enormous emotions if you are normal and human
I am so sorry for you - and do know from my own experience that these feelings should not be blocked and you should not have any guilt for feeling (or showing) them xxx
Originally Posted by Vodka_Drinka:
“Hugs to Katkim tomorrow
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“Hugs to Katkim tomorrow
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Katkims big hugs to you I hope you are ok..
I am seriously missing Ben......
..
PLS come on the radio soon. I want to hear his voice over and over again...:
..PLS come on the radio soon. I want to hear his voice over and over again...:
Originally Posted by glitterlady08:
“I am seriously missing Ben........
PLS come on the radio soon. I want to hear his voice over and over again...:”
“I am seriously missing Ben......
..PLS come on the radio soon. I want to hear his voice over and over again...:
”
Me too. Someone posted a link to a Youtube clip of what I thought would be Josie talking about Dave, but when I clicked on it Ben was on it too (defending Dave, bless him), it was so lovely to hear him speak again... his voice is like warm honey
I bet he's looking all gorgeous and sun kissed like he did when he left the BB house as well
The guy from Buzzclips was tweeting Corin earlier asking if she and Ben want to do a promo event in Fuengerola in March. I think we should all have a Bennites holiday together.. Fuengerola in March anyone?
Originally Posted by Vodka_Drinka:
“Me too. Someone posted a link to a Youtube clip of what I thought would be Josie talking about Dave, but when I clicked on it Ben was on it too (defending Dave, bless him), it was so lovely to hear him speak again... his voice is like warm honey I bet he's looking all gorgeous and sun kissed like he did when he left the BB house as well
The guy from Buzzclips was tweeting Corin earlier asking if she and Ben want to do a promo event in Fuengerola in March. I think we should all have a Bennites holiday together.. Fuengerola in March anyone?”
“Me too. Someone posted a link to a Youtube clip of what I thought would be Josie talking about Dave, but when I clicked on it Ben was on it too (defending Dave, bless him), it was so lovely to hear him speak again... his voice is like warm honey
I bet he's looking all gorgeous and sun kissed like he did when he left the BB house as wellThe guy from Buzzclips was tweeting Corin earlier asking if she and Ben want to do a promo event in Fuengerola in March. I think we should all have a Bennites holiday together.. Fuengerola in March anyone?
”
Hi Voddy, I bet Ben looks gorgeous after his holiday, I bet his hair has gone blonder, I know you would love to rub your hands through his hair ::.
buckets of water for Voddy...Ben defending Dave, well thats the kind of person he is, is very forgiving and does not hold grudges
Yes we should all have a Bennites holiday together, you will have to try smuggle Ben in your suitcase..
Originally Posted by glitterlady08:
“Hi Voddy, I bet Ben looks gorgeous after his holiday, I bet his hair has gone blonder, I know you would love to rub your hands through his hair ::.buckets of water for Voddy...
Ben defending Dave, well thats the kind of person he is, is very forgiving and does not hold grudges
Yes we should all have a Bennites holiday together, you will have to try smuggle Ben in your suitcase..”
“Hi Voddy, I bet Ben looks gorgeous after his holiday, I bet his hair has gone blonder, I know you would love to rub your hands through his hair ::.
buckets of water for Voddy...Ben defending Dave, well thats the kind of person he is, is very forgiving and does not hold grudges
Yes we should all have a Bennites holiday together, you will have to try smuggle Ben in your suitcase..
”
Yeah, the sun will have bleached his hair... I bet he's been wearing those top gun sun glasses as well. He always looked very sexy in those, I bet he's looking extra gorgeous at the moment *drooools*
The most adorable thing is, I don;t think he realises just how attractive he is.I'd love to smuggle him in my suitcase somewhere BTW
Originally Posted by Vodka_Drinka:
“Yeah, the sun will have bleached his hair... I bet he's been wearing those top gun sun glasses as well. He always looked very sexy in those, I bet he's looking extra gorgeous at the moment *drooools* The most adorable thing is, I don;t think he realises just how attractive he is.
I'd love to smuggle him in my suitcase somewhere BTW”
“Yeah, the sun will have bleached his hair... I bet he's been wearing those top gun sun glasses as well. He always looked very sexy in those, I bet he's looking extra gorgeous at the moment *drooools*
The most adorable thing is, I don;t think he realises just how attractive he is.I'd love to smuggle him in my suitcase somewhere BTW
”
buckets of water for Voddy (the Pacific ocean...))
Originally Posted by glitterlady08:
“buckets of water for Voddy (the Pacific ocean...))”
“buckets of water for Voddy (the Pacific ocean...))
”
I'm terrible aren't I?
Originally Posted by glitterlady08:
“
Who can blame you...Ben is lovely...we Bennites have fantastic taste..
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“
Who can blame you...Ben is lovely...we Bennites have fantastic taste..
”
Ben is so lovely, I want to cover him in chocolate and eat him all up!
Originally Posted by Vodka_Drinka:
“Ben is so lovely, I want to cover him in chocolate and eat him all up!”
“Ben is so lovely, I want to cover him in chocolate and eat him all up!
”
Lets hope the chocolate does not melt too quickly, umm
Originally Posted by glitterlady08:
“Lets hope the chocolate does not melt too quickly, umm”
“Lets hope the chocolate does not melt too quickly, umm
”
Lol!!!
Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.
Originally Posted by katkim:
“Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.”
“Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.”
Awwwww Katkim
I think it's perfectly normal to go through a range of emotions when you have a close bereavement. Some days will be worse than others.
Originally Posted by katkim:
“Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.”
“Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.”
Hi Katkims,as it best to release things I know what you are going through my father died 2 years ago of cancer he was quite young as well,he will always be with me...xxx your father will always be with you.I just cannot wait for spring to come, this winter has literally dragged..
I love spring time...Hopefully we will see more of Ben soon..
Originally Posted by Vodka_Drinka:
“Me too. Someone posted a link to a Youtube clip of what I thought would be Josie talking about Dave, but when I clicked on it Ben was on it too (defending Dave, bless him), it was so lovely to hear him speak again... his voice is like warm honey I bet he's looking all gorgeous and sun kissed like he did when he left the BB house as well
The guy from Buzzclips was tweeting Corin earlier asking if she and Ben want to do a promo event in Fuengerola in March. I think we should all have a Bennites holiday together.. Fuengerola in March anyone?”
“Me too. Someone posted a link to a Youtube clip of what I thought would be Josie talking about Dave, but when I clicked on it Ben was on it too (defending Dave, bless him), it was so lovely to hear him speak again... his voice is like warm honey
I bet he's looking all gorgeous and sun kissed like he did when he left the BB house as wellThe guy from Buzzclips was tweeting Corin earlier asking if she and Ben want to do a promo event in Fuengerola in March. I think we should all have a Bennites holiday together.. Fuengerola in March anyone?
”
Trust Ben to defend others who were unkind to him. He is so forgiving and moves on as glitterlady says
Fuengerola eh!
Several buckets of ice cold water for Voddy
Originally Posted by katkim:
“Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.”
“Thanks for your messages and advice guys, it means a lot!
The funeral was...ok, for want of a better word. Around 150 people turned up, which was a shock but touching. Some were family friends who we hadn't seen in years - my dad's childhood pen-pal was there, and they had stopped writing to one another around 40 years ago! - between catching up and reminiscing with them, and looking after my mum, it really didn't feel like a goodbye. Today, I've had more time to think and feel, and as such I've been more weepy.
Anyway, trying to be more positive about things.”
Glad it went well KK so nice to have so many people turn up - he must of been a well liked person. As you say focus on the positive.
Looking forward to more Ben on the tv/radio/internet etc etc etc.....
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