Originally Posted by pjw1985:
“is you're fired really just an excuse to humiliate the fired candidate? this week for example Ruby Wax seemed to delight in taking the piss out of Alex and to his credit he took it well. But not everyone would handle it as well as he did. And ok he could be annoying but he wasn't a bad guy really so why does he deserve to be ridiculed by Ruby 'look at me i'm so funny' Wax?”
“is you're fired really just an excuse to humiliate the fired candidate? this week for example Ruby Wax seemed to delight in taking the piss out of Alex and to his credit he took it well. But not everyone would handle it as well as he did. And ok he could be annoying but he wasn't a bad guy really so why does he deserve to be ridiculed by Ruby 'look at me i'm so funny' Wax?”
I agree completely, Ruby Wax used the entire event to ruthlessly mock a social inadequate. I think that Alex took it as he did, because he is used to being mocked.
I was imagining how I would have responded to the relentless undermining of my character and self-worth and I would have got quite aggressive, but then I believe I am not the social inadequate that Alex is and I probably wouldn't have been subjected to that treatment.
I believe Ruby behaved the way she did because, like all bullies, she knew she could get away with it when her victim was so weak in character.





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But I do think that aspirants