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Old 17-11-2010, 11:15
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Lembit would irritate the Hell out of me but that is no excuse for downright nastiness.. Nigel is an arse - hope the public start voting for him to do some tasks!!
yes totaly agree
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Old 17-11-2010, 11:22
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Just a quick bitch...it did make me laugh that he was cast as Audrey Roberts lovely toy boy, when he looks older and far pointier than her.
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Old 17-11-2010, 11:24
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He's got his nose to far up his own backside
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Old 17-11-2010, 11:31
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i am not. he wants to be the centre of attention, he is a weak man and feels at home with women as men frighten him. he is a typical narcissist obsessed with prestige (which he feels he gets from women) and power (which he thinks he has by dint of a fictitious intellect). He actually is a woman hater i suspect and sees them as weak, mailable and foolish.
yes you are, Lemsip wants to be the center of attention , he is a weak man, and as you use the narcissist word again 'yawn' you can afford that title to him. Lemsip has no idea of where his ideals lay politician or celeb , or cheeky girl fanatic. At leas Havers knows where he is in the context of the media.Your statement of He is actually a woman hater is beyond belief , then why did he say he cant wait to get back to his family??
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Old 17-11-2010, 11:56
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yes you are, Lemsip wants to be the center of attention , he is a weak man, and as you use the narcissist word again 'yawn' you can afford that title to him. Lemsip has no idea of where his ideals lay politician or celeb , or cheeky girl fanatic. At leas Havers knows where he is in the context of the media.Your statement of He is actually a woman hater is beyond belief , then why did he say he cant wait to get back to his family??
Havers has clearly demonstrated that he has a nasty side, and waits not a second before jumping down people's necks. It's a good job the camps are merging, because anyone with basic observational abilities can tell that it was going to get worse and turn into something very unpleasant to see.

Your idea of Havers as a self aware individual falls short of the mark too, because he has obviously turned off a lot of people who previously just saw him being a bit of a inoffensive ladies man.
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:06
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I did find myself feeling sorry for Lembit last night.
But I don't think Nigel was bullying him.
That just seems a term that's thrown about too much.

He just wasn't pleasant towards him.
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:12
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Reading some of the comments on here, anyone would think no one had ever come across someone who really got on their nerves.

Lemsip is an obvious irritant, and is rubbing Nigel up the wrong way with his silly comments/behaviour, unfortunately there is no escape, so Nigel is losing his rag.
It probably doesnt help that people are hungry, tired, uncomfortable, and living in a tip.
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:25
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Nigel is a knob, totally up his own and oh so willing to play the upper class womaniser "role" to the enth degree.

I dislike his dismissive demeanor intensly.
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:31
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I'm very disappointed in Nigel's behaviour so far. I had high hopes of him being one of my favourites as I think he's a good actor. However, on seeing how impatient and up his own backside that he is with Lembit, I'm fast taking a dislike to him.

Note that he also said that Linford is next on his hitlist after he firmly puts Lembit in his place.

Lembit and Linford may well get on his nerves, but I don't suppose it even occurred to him that he could also be coming across as a major royal pain in the ass.
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:43
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I'm very disappointed in Nigel's behaviour so far. I had high hopes of him being one of my favourites as I think he's a good actor. However, on seeing how impatient and up his own backside that he is with Lembit, I'm fast taking a dislike to him.

Note that he also said that Linford is next on his hitlist after he firmly puts Lembit in his place.

Lembit and Linford may well get on his nerves, but I don't suppose it even occurred to him that he could also be coming across as a major royal pain in the ass.
Well said. He may think he's being amusing, but he's making, nasty, sly, insidious comments about Lembit and looking round for support as if to say ' Look at me I'm so much better than the rest of you!' God forbid they choose him as Camp Captain!
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:46
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Reading some of the comments on here, anyone would think no one had ever come across someone who really got on their nerves.

Lemsip is an obvious irritant, and is rubbing Nigel up the wrong way with his silly comments/behaviour, unfortunately there is no escape, so Nigel is losing his rag.
It probably doesnt help that people are hungry, tired, uncomfortable, and living in a tip.
Yes, how dare he try to sharpen a stick!!! Honesty, it was literally anything he did that somehow irritated Nigel, and as with any bullying behaviour, eventually other people start to get on board. It's a good job the camps joined because it might inject a bit of sanity, and those on the attack may well be pulled up on their behaviour.
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Old 17-11-2010, 12:53
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What a stupid connotation, if he was acting a character why would he choose his latest role?

Why not choose his roles in any of these
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0369814/

Keep your bloody wig on. I wasn't exactly being serious.
What a stupid post.

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Old 17-11-2010, 12:56
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Reading some of the comments on here, anyone would think no one had ever come across someone who really got on their nerves.

Lemsip is an obvious irritant, and is rubbing Nigel up the wrong way with his silly comments/behaviour, unfortunately there is no escape, so Nigel is losing his rag.
It probably doesnt help that people are hungry, tired, uncomfortable, and living in a tip.
Really? I find Nigel way more irritating than Lembit.
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Old 17-11-2010, 13:07
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Well said. He may think he's being amusing, but he's making, nasty, sly, insidious comments about Lembit and looking round for support as if to say ' Look at me I'm so much better than the rest of you!' God forbid they choose him as Camp Captain!
He'll need a nazi suit to go with it. *shivers*

Yes, how dare he try to sharpen a stick!!! Honesty, it was literally anything he did that somehow irritated Nigel, and as with any bullying behaviour, eventually other people start to get on board. It's a good job the camps joined because it might inject a bit of sanity, and those on the attack may well be pulled up on their behaviour.
I was gobsmacked when he had a go at him about this. I mean for goodness sake.....complaining about the knife going blunt when they could quite easily sharpen it or get another from the IAC team?
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Old 17-11-2010, 13:08
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Really? I find Nigel way more irritating than Lembit.
Me too.
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Old 17-11-2010, 13:17
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He'll need a nazi suit to go with it. *shivers*



I was gobsmacked when he had a go at him about this. I mean for goodness sake.....complaining about the knife going blunt when they could quite easily sharpen it or get another from the IAC team?
I'd have given Havers a healthy prod with that stick.
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Old 17-11-2010, 13:19
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I'd have given Havers a healthy plod with that stick.
Who knows, Lembit might have been sharpening it up for exactly that reason
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Old 17-11-2010, 14:11
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Really? I find Nigel way more irritating than Lembit.
Thats probably because you're only spending one hour a night in Lemsip's company instead of twenty four.
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Old 17-11-2010, 14:42
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Am i right in thinking that years ago he was screwing around behind his wifes back and then left wife for the woman in question? What a charmer.
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Old 17-11-2010, 14:44
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Thats probably because you're only spending one hour a night in Lemsip's company instead of twenty four.
And we are also only spending one hour a night in Nigel's company. Either one of them might be far more irritating in larger doses. So far I much prefer Lembit.
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Old 17-11-2010, 15:14
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Havers has been testy. How that becomes 'bullying' is beyond me. The term has been so diluted it makes no sense at all. Which is unfortunate for people who really are bullied.
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Old 17-11-2010, 16:25
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Nigel, the not-so-passive aggressive. His animosity towards Lembit appears to be both personal and political. I like it that Lembit is not taking the bait, despite Linford's juvenile interjections. Hopefully, the mixed camp will divert Havers' myopic view.
I was thinking the same thing. We also have to remember that most of them will be afflicted with narcissism to a lesser or larger degree.

Nigel seems to think that his views and comfort take precedence over common politeness towards others.
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Old 17-11-2010, 16:27
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Havers has been testy. How that becomes 'bullying' is beyond me. The term has been so diluted it makes no sense at all. Which is unfortunate for people who really are bullied.
If Nigel continues to pick on Lembit and encourage others to join in or agree with him, then that is indeed bullying.
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Old 17-11-2010, 16:29
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Am i right in thinking that years ago he was screwing around behind his wifes back and then left wife for the woman in question? What a charmer.
Yes. Nigel's problem is that previously, we have only seen him acting or being interviewed, where he can control his responses and appear more pleasant to those viewing.

He has chosen to take part in this programme which will reveal all his personality defects and being an actor will not help him - because he isn't acting, he is showing us his true grumpy, selfish self: Nasty Nigel.
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Old 17-11-2010, 16:32
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I agree with the OP, typical bully imo.

Picking on the easy target. For me Nigel is boring, he's a moaner, and I'm well peeved that he got ruled out of the trial on medical grounds! If they can't do the trials, they shouldn't be there!

Lembit is intersting. Nigel's probably jealous of who Lembit has had as girlfreinds over the last few years.

Nigel to go first!
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