Originally Posted by Tangerine_82:
“I don't think the opinions of professional ballroom and latin dancers should be tossed aside so easily lol. If it's about personality, then by all means disregard their opinions but when it comes to dancing, they know what they're talking about and just because they may be harshly honest about someone you like is no reason to dismiss them out of hand and call them bitchy.”
I agree in principle. The issue, inmho, is when someone hints at something "behind the scenes" and does not elaborate (brendan), or when someone criticism is too harsh without giving any benefit of the doubt (Lillia).
At the end it looks like both are bitchy which is not good for them.
Now if Brendan had said, "oh I wish Patsy did more hours training so she could be amazing", or "Patsy has a poor foot (she did mentioned it on ITT), so she trains in trainers which at the end makes it more difficult, poor thing", he would imply that she is not doing all she can but at the same time being sympathetic and hence not bitchy at all. It would honest and likeable.
Likewise, Lillia could have said "I am guessing Robin goes off time to connect with Patsy, I am hoping that they can fix it up next week." Again, the underlaying criticism is there but not in a bitchy way, more elaborating on the idea why that could happen and giving him the benefit of the doubt. Not bitchy but informative.