Originally Posted by Three Left Feet:
“There's something potentially "not right" about any 16 year old being seduced by a much older person. In the heterosexual situation, there's no stigma associated with the basic sexual aspect of such a situation, where in the homosexual situation, the youngster has the potential for being stigmatised for a homosexual relationship they were coerced into simply because they were too young to handle the situation.”
BIB That's a bit of a strange statement, do you want to clarify? I don't know why you leaped to coercing youngsters to be honest... I hope you aren't suggesting anything!
Your idea that because gay people 'face a stigma' they should be denied equal rights, is really pandering to homophobes.
Everyone regardless of sexuality should be free to experiment without fear of legal prosecution at the same age. A gay teen should be allowed to try being straight, a straight teen to be gay and everything in between.
Actually I really am not sure what you are saying here... is it because some heterosexuals go through a 'phase' that homosexuals should be treated as "not old enough to know yet", if so this is in fact
protecting heterosexuals from being picked on for being gay?
I see double standards here.
Also, I don't really agree that a potential pregnancy can be dismissed as 'not a stigma'.
I think a lesbian being coerced into having a heterosexual relationship because they were too young to handle the situation, even having a baby, is just as bad actually
far worse, as I have seen that happen.
We are past the days where kids aren't aware they are gay or have to hide it, kids are coming out younger and younger, and this is through education and being treated more as equal. To be honest, they know their sexuality about the same time straight ones do, they just have to deal with (like you say) stigma and expectation.
Telling them it's ok and they are equal is a good thing.
Watching (well, hearing about) your straight friends have sex and not being legal yourself for another 2 years after them is effectively saying "well TRY to be straight for a bit at least..."
If I have got you wrong, please feel free to clarify, but I find your comments bemusing.