Originally Posted by M@nterik:
“Quite frankly I would have done the same. When I have bumped into actors or people in the public eye I have referred to them by their first name (not many admittedly). I though that faux pas of Stuart's was totally understandable.”
Bumping into someone in the street is a bit different to walking into a room where you know you are going to be interviewed by someone for a reasonably well paid job.
Even if you know the interviewing panel (for example internal interview) you are still expected to treat the panel as you would an external panel and vice versa, therefore you wait for introductions etc. Over familiarity can hurt you in an interview process, it makes you comfortable and you don't 'sell' yourself as well as you would to an external panel.
When I introduce myself to new doctors in my job or when doing interviews, my first email/greeting is always Dr So-n-so and my name is Orangesmartie. After that I revert to using their given (or preferred) name. I've never yet (touch wood) been corrected.
Interestingly, when introducing themselves to me, I am never referred to as Ms Orangesmartie. I always introduce my CEO as CEO, rather than Mr CEO.....but only because his surname is Wright and I'd die laughing introducing Mr Wright