Originally Posted by
k9fan:
“That's what I like, when posters can give thoughts and accept that others can see things differently
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I think this is how it should be, it is a forum, for discussion. I don't post very often, but the main boards are really annoying me at the moment, so many posters who I can't work out whether they are being sarcastic or delusional - some act like Carla and Leanne are saints, and other act like they are pure evil - usually if Leanne is seen as a saint, the same poster views Carla as the devil, and vice versa, obviously people always have a right to dislike a character, or love a character, but the extremes some people seem to feel is a bit strange, and to be honest I don't find I can discuss anything with those people as they ridiculously closed minded.
Originally Posted by
MsWilder11:
“I do agree that Leanne will never be able to fully understand Peter's alcoholism, but she tried as best as she could and she was extremely long suffering. I felt Peter wouldn't let Leanne understand/try to help him sometimes. Instead he'd clam up, go AWOL and end up talking to Carla about his problems because she turned to drink when things got tough too so she knew how he felt.
Now I believe that his and Carla's relationship could've been beneficial if it had stayed purely platonic and they were just friends who helped each other out with their mutual alcohol problem. Peter felt that he was letting Leanne down whenever he was tempted/fell off the wagon so I think that's part of the reason why he went to Carla in the low moments rather than Leanne. I will say that Carla did help him by empathizing, because that showed Peter he wasn't alone and at least there was one person who totally understood, and vice-versa.
I also think Peter has always felt inferior to Leanne in their relationship. She was the more stable one and held things together when Peter hit low points. Leanne's reliable because no matter what happened, she put up with everything. Yes she had the affair with Nick, but I believe that was because she was finding the initial stress of Peter's alcoholism hard to manage. Plus Nick was doing the chasing and took advantage of her weakness. After that, Leanne started to cope better because she knew the signs and what to expect.
I think Peter and Carla are going to find out soon that they can't work. Peter is probably relishing being the stronger partner for once, but it won't last. He can't stay strong for Carla because he can't stay strong for himself. When things get hard with Carla, he'll have no-one else to run to, and vice-versa. Leanne used to pull Peter back up, and Peter could then pull Carla up, but now the pair of them will just sink lower and lower (imo).
As much as others think Carla and Peter work/suit each other more, the truth is Leanne is healthier for him. I believe Peter does love her and that his relationship with Carla is more about feeling needed and he thinks that he'll be better with Carla because she understands so he won't have to put up any front/act for her. The problem with that is I doubt Peter will feel as pressured to stay off the drink because "Carla will understand"
Yikes! Ramble over
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Very interesting post. I think one of the things I love about this storyline, is not only that, in my opinion is involves the three best actresses/ actors Corrie have, but is the range of views and opinions it has received. Makes it much more interesting to see the way different people interpret it. I also like how it involved several storylines (Leanne and Peters, relationship, Leanne and Nicks, Leanne and Carlas, Carlas and Peter, the alcohol storyline, the Frank storyline and subsequent rape, Leanne's affair with Nick and so on) and has tied them into one bigger storyline.
Whilst I agree with many aspects of your post, I do think Peter genuinely loves Carla, but I do think a huge part of their relationship also could be addiction.
I agree that Leanne is possibly healthier for Peter than Carla, mainly because as you say she is more stable - Carla to me is a very interesting character - I reckon she is borderline depressive, could be suffering from RTS and PTSD, plus she hasn't actually ever tackled her drinking issues. The moment she was about to start tackling the, Peter chose that moment to confess his feelings for her, and seemed to stop their.
I think before Peter and Carla can have any form of a stable relationship, both of them need to ensure they are having professional help. It is interesting as I think Carla and Peter can provide each other with incredible support at times, and seem to have an ability to push their problems to the back in order to help each other, but with Simon to think about, I think that will be more difficult for Peter and will subsequently lead to problems.