Can I just say there is sooo much I want to say but wont for fear of being kicked off but I agree with you. My issue is not that he has a new girlfriend, good luck to them both but he actually said in one of his tweets( that he has now deleted )that he wouldn't be so desperate as to sell his side of the story(or wtte) so what has he done the interview for? I would like to think deep down he is not a bad person but he is a mass of contradictions, that much is easy to see.

To be fair they both are.

In the JJAT they are convinced that John loved Josie more than she loved him but I am convinced now more than ever that it was the other way around

Hahaha!! At times, I am biting my tongue also! He isn't a bad person at all. I am just beyond disappointed with his hypocrisy. That's what has got to me.

Josie has been the one to take most of the blame from most people since they broke up, as John has been away and we've not heard much from him.

As others have said, it's not that he's got a new girlfriend, but the timing of it, the magazine interview etc.

Yes I agree they both are. Sorry trying to explain what I mean, it makes sense in my head but can't seem to write it down so I'll just say I agree with Conchie and Cado and leave it at that

Nope, Think he just said that to save face and make himself look good. If he really wanted to be friends with her than he would say sorry and he wouldn't have said the things that he has said about her or let his so called friends talk about her the way that they do.

Morning everyone,

Pickles - hope you're OK, you should look after yourself, its not about making things worse worrying about Josie or John.

I really dont know where I belong, I've just had a lurk on the JAT and JJAT but dont feel I quite belong in either as I still have support for both of them. Dont get me wrong they have both done things I strongly disagree with but I still appreciate the better part of both of them. I will keep going until I'm told otherwise.

I am concerned for both of them. Josie has a hell of a lot to deal with but I do think in the long run its better that she knows, John has said that Josie is part of his past not future, harsh I know, but once she gets her head round it, it will help her move forward.

John concerns me not because he has fallen for someone else but that he has met someone in another false environment. He has met this girl whilst she was on holiday, again as in BB, we are not the same people on holiday as we are in real life, being on holiday is a false setting, how often I've sat on my hols saying I could stay here forever. Life is not one long holiday and I hope for Johns sake he can sustain this relationship in the real world, a world where people go to work every day, shop, clean, pay bills etc. Sometimes I am a bit unsure how much John knows about real life, this is not a criticism just an observation.

Anyway I will stay here until I am forced to choose. xxxx

I have a feeling this will be the last one he does & was probably hounded by the press to make things clear we all know what the press is like. It is unfortunate timing I admit but we do not know if there were any business reasons he had to come over for i.e his agency contract with SoB for a start or any agreements with C5 re the series they would not want the plug pulling on that .
It is a shame it could not have had the happy ending we all thought would happen but life has to go on for both of them

Like everyone else on here I loved watching JJJ last summer and I am not a young airbrain but a silver surfer they gave me a lot of laughs, a few heartstopping moments and a few times I felt like banging their head together to knock some sense in.

I just don't understand how his new gf can be 'the one' after a couple of weeks and how can he be in love with her if he's just getting to know her...


Aah I just don't get it lol

Morning everyone

I haven't been on for a while hope you're all well.

I'd just like to say that it's never nice when relationships fail.

It just is what it is.

John and Josie gave me a fabulous Summer and both of them have been nothing but kind,courteous and thoughtful toward their fans whenever Rob and I have met them.

I wish them both all the very best for the future.

very much love jan xxxx

Do we know for certain his presence is just Josie related. May be he has "work plans" in the pipeline which require his signature on contracts etc. We only know so much. It has taken weeks to get to this position. We speculated on many things and many of them have turned out to be untrue. I wonder how many weeks will go by before we again get the "truth" and not the "personalised truth". I wish both well, and now some kind of closure can begin. They are stil intrigueing characters and I for one will follow both their careers with interest.

There is plenty I want to say, but can't. And I don't want to go into the Josie thread and criticise John, so I'm just going to keep it to myself. But I'm pretty sure I'm thinking the same as a lot of people.

To add, I still appreciate JJJ, and the awesome time I had watching BB last year. What's happened now doesn't take away from what happened in the Summer.

according to a DM going round on twitter from what now seems a reliabe source DJ bookings are now being taken for jj and jj at 2000 a gig

i wish ther was somewhere

goodmornin all.i said yesterday i smell a rat and i still believe it even more now

I don't think John James 'gets it'. Good luck to him.

Quick sign me up, my brother needs a dj for his weddinG, fell asleep there for few mins & dreamt Josie got it on with kirk from TOWIE-weird or not!

ohh still? I had a whiff of one this morning before i read the scans, but it's a different stink now

Just a word about John and the new girlfriend.

I almost think it is going to be almost impossible for this relationship to work.
So he is back here to work things with her? He said he didn't want to bring her to the public eye yet? Well when she does she is going to face a mass of public abuse. True she won't deserve it but Josie is so so so popular any girl that got involved with John would face the same - especially when it has happened only weeks after they split. I don't know any girl who could handle that and I think she has to be well prepared.

If John is staying here with this girl then surely he is going to face the same issues as he had with Josie. He is miles from home, doesn't have any friends or family here. If he does make more of an effort trying to socialise with this girls friends then fair play. Though I will be massively disappointed as he never seemed to do that with Josie's pals.

Also - if this girl is STC as we are lead to believe then hasn't she said on her 'star career page' that she likes drinking and dancing and going out with friends. All traits that John seemed to find difficult in Josie.

I'm not sure how much this girl knows about John's relationship with Josie. If she is STC then i would imagine a fair bit but I think this girl would have to be extremely secure in hers and John's relationship and sure of her feelings for him and I'm not sure how much you can tell in just over 4 weeks.

x

Good for you, I too have read the other threads and some comments make me wince an then I want to argue and that is not good, there are faults on both sides and I too am unsure what to do, probably need to step away from the whole thing the only thing keeping me going is you lot.

Hey guys, I've read the interview and it was nowhere near as bad as I thought it would be. I'm glad he chose not to slag Josie off and instead wish her well, and he didn't really go into much detail about why they split in the first place. I have no problem with him telling his side of things but what I do have a problem with is the timing of when he has chosen to tell his story. I'm not really sure he could have chosen a more insensitive time tbh. They've both done things since they've split which has disappointed me, but ultimately I still appreciate the both of them as people. I hope John's new girlfriend makes him happy and she is not just a rebound.

"Before you criticise someone you should walk a mile in their shoes"

I did the above. I sat back and thought about things from both their points of view. I think because I support them both and didn't have a favourite that this was the fairest thing to do. How did it make me feel? Not good!!!!!!!!!!!!

Josie - Putting myself in Josies shoes I felt hurt, angry, sad, humiliated. Wondered why I had let the last few months of my life become so out of control. Thought back to when it was said that we would walk away from all the fame before we let it come between us but then thinking well it's a good job I didn't because where would I be today if it had still ended like this? I think her walls will now be reinfored with steel and it will take more than a few self help books to make her understand where it all went wrong

John - Putting myself in Johns shoes........this is a toughie to be honest, mainly because of all the tweets he sent while in Oz. I thought he was hurt, angry, bitter and sad. But from reading the article I don't think he was.....I think he was relieved. It was the end of January when he got back from Oz I think and it was the end of March when he went back there. That is not a long time but he must have felt very clostrophobic in the relationship if his heart wasn't in it. (imo I think you could see from the programme last nigh that his heart wasn't in it, was this down to editing? who knows)

I have to say that while John has every right to move on with his life I still can't understand the need to do an interview about a new girl who you are happy with, yet still getting to know. And if he wants to keep her out of the public eye then what is he going to do? Sit inside all day with the curtains closed Although is there really any media interest in what he does? He never really got papped unless he was with Josie. (I know Josie doesn't get papped too often either) They are as Josie called them z listers and I do wonder how John plans on keeping himself in the public eye, if that is indeed what he wants, although his tweets from oz imlpied different or maybe we are just crap at reading these god forsaking cryptic tweets

Josie has put herself out there and has left herself open to probing questions. i know her interviews this week are all to promote the show but I think John's revelations will have taken some of the spot light of that and a lot of questions will be how she feels about the revelations. Josie isn't the most tactful person in the world and in her own words "When I get nervous I get verbal diarrhea". I hope that just for once Sean gives her the proper help, support and sympathy that she needs. This girl has an a battle on her hands between her head and her heart. If it was me I don't think I could trust myself to go on TV.

I must admit that I had splinters in my ass from sitting on the fence the last few days

Do I wish John the best? Yes.
Do I hope he is happy? Well everyone deserves to be happy, don't they.
Do I think he has gone the best way about things? No.

Sorry for my ramble

morning all
so IF the above is true, maybe he is coming back to live here, suppose it makes sense of he wants to be with his 'girlfriend'
stil undecided where to post, i want to stay here like most of you as no matter what i think of john now, i dont want to see him dissed, and i would miss you all, but i think i will gradually end up gravitating over to the JAT.
i now worry for josies state of mental health, by her tweeting she was up most of the night so has had minimal amount of sleep.i like some of you see her heading for a breakdown.

xx

Morning Just briefly popping in before I go to work to say that I still support both John and Josie and before I can say anything about this magazine interview I need to read it first which I shall do after work.

I hope this isn't the end of the JJJAT as I don't feel like their whole relationship was a lie so however I feel about either of them after we've seen the whole series and everythings out in the open, I'll stay here to at least appreciate the relationship that they did have.

If you see this then Happy Birthday Claire Hope you have a lovely day