Originally Posted by daznov11:
“I can't believe how stupid I was. I actually thought that people were becoming more accepting of gays so I decided today was the day to go for it. I came on this and had a read and was really ready for it all and then I told her. My best friend, the one I thought I could trust with anything and she told me it was totally unnatural. She said she would do the right thing as a friend and not tell anyone but it was completely unnatural and then when I went home I realized she'd blocked me from everything, I really thought she's be caring and accepting - obviously not. I don't think she'll tell - she's not the type - but then I didn't think she was the homophobic type either. Anyway I'm sitting like a total loser with Wicked on and just crying to myself, I don't know what to do - I mean I planned for this situation but now it's happening I don't know what to do. Do I just pretend it never happened and just go on like it didn't upset me or do I confront her stupid homophobic behavior.”
Aww, sorry it went bad. Keep in mind though, it's taken you a while to come to terms with it, maybe she just needs some time.
I know her reaction was quite bad, but I'd leave things for now, and see if she comes around.
If she doesn't it's her loss.