Gah!
I just wrote a long old post about my 'feelings' and one wrong click and I lost the whole bloody thing. So then I wrote it all again and clicked send and the thread had bumped!! Anyway, it's important to me so I'll write it again!
I've been thinking how I can have a rant about the recent shenanigans (such a good word!) and I realised that although I haven't been here in a long time, the JJJAT was where I started and so I suppose it's the place to come if you have something to say. Most of you probably don't know who I am, so hello, I'm Pops - I was here in the Summer, alot. Nice to meet you!
Also, I haven't kept up on what's been going on. I mean, I know they split up (God wouldn't it be funny if I didn't, imagine you lot having to explain that!), but I haven't read the post break up interviews, looked at pictures, watched TSAJ or kept up with the thread. Not many people I follow on twitter talk about them (well, some do, which is the point of my rant), and so I just don't really know what's been going on. Last week, or whenever it was, I unfollowed John due to his #ff. Personally, I didn't want to be part of his followers statistics after he'd done that, I still sometimes read his timeline (especially if people are replying to him). I still follow Josie.
So, here's my rant.
What the hell is wrong with people?
Did we not spend the summer (and most of you, alot longer) watching these 2? Did we not spend however many months getting to know them?
Then how on earth are people just now deciding that they will split into teams and mock and abuse the people in the opposing team?
At what point did you forget you knew that Josie and John would react like this? At what point did you forget their personality flaws, forget how their lives have molded them into these two difficult people? What did they do that made you decide they were the spawn of the devil and you must hate on them and all who like them?
I just don't get it, I really, really don't. Surely I'm not the only person who hasn't taken sides? Surely I'm not the only person who hasn't decided that anyone who supports Josie is stupid and gullible?
I can only think of 2 reasons that people are so vile about them and their fans.
1) Sometimes, you just go off people.
2) JJJ were nicer together than they are apart.
I think that it's ok to go off JJJ, I mean they aren't in our lives so why bother. (Although from what I can tell, neither of them has committed a crime). I'm not sure how I feel about former thread friends in opposing camps!! These people bought this thread together, we made friends. And because JJJ have split up you have to as well? It's not right, and I don't think it says much about 'you' as a person.
With regards to point 2 - I'm sure their personalities are the same, it's just that the love has gone and therefore we start to dislike the bad points of their personalities that we previously put up with because we liked them as a couple. Well, I'm sorry. That's just shallow. I mean, think of it this way - you people that hate one or the other so much, would you still hate them if they got back together? I'm sure you'll say you would. But to me that's just odd.
Maybe now you're saying things like 'well, I always liked Josie/John (delete as appropriate!) more anyway' as if that's ok.
For me, it's not about them, it's about your treatment of them and each other.
Anyway, that's that rant over. Here's my next one.
At one point do ANY of you know whether he owes her money or not? Do any of you actually know that he doesn't? Well if you do, say your piece. If you don't actually know, then we'll just have to assume that he does owe her money - I assume that when she moved out of the property there were some final bills that needed to be paid - perhaps the money was for them? Either way, who fricking cares!
People change, they evolve to their lifestyle and their surroundings. They change their minds, they love and they don't. I understand all of this, so if you can change your mind on whether you like someone or not, why can't they change their mind on whether they'll sell a story in a magazine? After all, they still need to earn money.
Everyone is allowed their own opinion, obviously. It's why we come here, to type out our thoughts. This one is mine, I needed to say it.
As you were thread, I think I've made my point.
x
EDIT: I should point out that this is a general rant - it's not directed to anyone in particular, please don't take offence!!