Originally Posted by doctor blue box:
“ It amazes me that people can still moan about the fact that Tennants regeneration was emotional when Matt's has now been and gone and was emotional and included him seeing a former companion just the same.”
I don't think its the fact that it was emotional that was generally criticised, but the emotional attitude. For instance, Matt's exit was pretty much the opposite of David's. When he thinks he's actually going to die, he accepts it and goes to confront the Daleks one last time. When he begins his regeneration in the TARDIS, he makes a speech about how change is a good thing and how we shouldn't be afraid of it.
Similarly, seeing Amy was very different to 10s final reward. 11 only hallucinates Amy in his final moments. Its his mind playing tricks on him as he begins to regenerate. 10, however, was supposedly mortally wounded by having his entire body flooded with radiation. His regeneration kicked off almost immediately as the wounds on his face healed. But then he still managed to go on a merry jaunt to say goodbye to all his friends and was even strong enough to actually creep up on a Sontaran and knock it out. Heck, he didn't even say goodbye to half of them - he just stood in the distance, looking cool and moody!
I actually think that Matt's exit is not just the polar opposite of David's, but I think it was specifically written to be just that. The thing I disliked about 10s regeneration was that it really made it such a downer. 10 describes regeneration as "like dying," he gets terrified at the prospect that he's going to have to do it, he's fearful at the loss of identity. He also has to go and say one last goodbye to all his friends - but only 10s friends, it seems.
Comparatively, 11s regen is all about how its a good thing. When he starts to regenerate, the music swells and he gets excited. This is a moment for us to smile at. When he returns to the TARDIS and talks to Clara, he comforts her by saying that he is the Doctor, but so is his next face. Rather than crying that who he is will die and a new man will walk away, he makes a comparison to how we all change throughout our lives.
Both are sad, but one looks on the tragedy of regeneration and the other looks on the excitement of change. Or put another way, ten was a glass half empty kinda guy and 11 was too busy enjoying the drink to notice it was getting low!
I honestly believed that 11s last speech was Moffat directly responding to some of the fan negativity over 10s exit.