Originally Posted by Jepson:
“Sorry.
It's just that asking "are you saying" is sometimes a way that people have of saying what they want to say and making it appear as if you said it yourself.
I didn't realise it was a genuine question.”
Fair enough. All this is text-based, which can make it hard to determine the real tone. No apologies needed.
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“I agree that it wasn't a good idea but I don't see how she can be accused of selfishness since her goals are directly aligned with the goals of the other people involved. In the context she could not act in a selfish way (with relation to Tom and Melody) because her outcome is inextricably linked to theirs.”
But doesn't it suggest she was effectively telling her "boss" that she was crap? I don't know any boss who could tolerate that. I was surprised at Helen because of all candidates, she should be the one who already realised that.
It seems that Helen cared more about keeping her track record clean than respecting Melody's right to be PM, bearing in mind Melody wanted to win as much as Helen did. However, you've already made clear you disagree and that's fine.