I have 14mm tunnels (as big a I want to go) I've been stretching them slowly for about 10 years, I like how they look and frankly don't even consider other people's thoughts on them. I doubt they'll ever shrink back down but I think plugs look just fine and have some lovely designs if I were to ever not want "massive gaping holes" anymore. They won't stretch on their own though as there is no direct weight on any part of the piercing like there is with heavy wire hook earings, that's why some ladies get those slits. It's like a cheese wire theory, would you cut cheese with wire or a rolling pin?
As for the baggy pants hanging down, I guess it's one of those clothing rules, wear what ever you like just so long as it fits. I think it's a convict trend thing, convicts arent allowed belts (suicide risks) so their pants sag, it's an odd style to emulate but as it does me no harm, I can't judge.
Last edited by Bibidybobidyboo : 09-07-2011 at 22:37