Tom seems to be either highly rated or properly slated on these forums, and I have a theory as to why that is.
I think it might be an age thing... let me explain.
My theory is that the people who like Tom are a bit older and, having had a fair bit of life experience, understand that his less obvious qualities are very valuable in business. They've worked with enough highly competitive, selfish shouty people to be heartily sick and tired of them and realise that someone who is quieter and comes across as decent and hardworking is a far more efficient business person than one who spends much of their time and energy being shoutily competitive..
In contrast, those who don't rate Tom are probably younger, are still very much in that shouty "Me, me, me" competitive mindset and don't (yet) see that you can be very efficient and good at your job without having to continually show off to be heard above all the other younger shouty types.
I think younger people sometimes mistake 'leadership' for shouting your mouth off, which is understandable but, in my opinion, erroneous.
Anyway, that's my theory - let's put it to the test. Those of you who particularly like and dislike Tom, roughly what sort of age are you?
For the record, I rate him and am, in age tems, what you might describe as 'mid-career'.
I think it might be an age thing... let me explain.
My theory is that the people who like Tom are a bit older and, having had a fair bit of life experience, understand that his less obvious qualities are very valuable in business. They've worked with enough highly competitive, selfish shouty people to be heartily sick and tired of them and realise that someone who is quieter and comes across as decent and hardworking is a far more efficient business person than one who spends much of their time and energy being shoutily competitive..
In contrast, those who don't rate Tom are probably younger, are still very much in that shouty "Me, me, me" competitive mindset and don't (yet) see that you can be very efficient and good at your job without having to continually show off to be heard above all the other younger shouty types.
I think younger people sometimes mistake 'leadership' for shouting your mouth off, which is understandable but, in my opinion, erroneous.
Anyway, that's my theory - let's put it to the test. Those of you who particularly like and dislike Tom, roughly what sort of age are you?
For the record, I rate him and am, in age tems, what you might describe as 'mid-career'.





. I want Helen in 2nd and Jim/Tom can be interchangeable