Originally Posted by JJJ lover:
“Letter 1
Dear Josie
I split up with my husband of ten years a year ago and it's hard to remember what on earth I ever saw in him. I know I loved him once, and we have two kids, but I hate his guts now. He is manipulative and controlling and made my life a misery and in the end I admit I turned to the comfort of another man to escape his clutches. Since we broke up, he is always getting his nasty little digs in when I drop the kids off - mostly about my weight. I wish I could never see him again. I might move to Australia and take the kids. What do you do when love turns to hate?
BIB 1 - Josie has said this about John - cringe I think was the word she used. She said he was manipulative etc
BIB 2 - Well he made a dig at her weight when he retweeted that picture of Josie.
Carla, firstly get the idea of moving to Australia out of your head. Running away will solve nothing and it would be wrong to take the kids away from him however mean he was to you. If you really truly hate someone it means that you still feel something for them. You need to switch off and hold your head high. The best way to get back at someone is to be successful, be happy. Write yourself a wish list of your dreams and get through that. Then forget about the idiot.
BIB 1 - Running away reference - wonder who she means?
BIB 2 - She's said previously that it's turned to hate between her and John James - so now this means that they still feel something for each other
BIB 3 - Be successful and happy - that's what she's doing - but is she truely happy?
More later!”
Originally Posted by JJJ lover:
“Letter 2
Dear Josie,
I split up with my boyfriend a few months ago but just can't stop thinking, what if ....? We had a very volatile relationship as we are both headstrong and big characters. We were very much in love but couldn't live together. I admit my ..... anger got the better of me at times but I so want him back, My friends made things worse as they were nasty to him as they only heard my side of the story. He has supposedly moved on but do you think I should try to contact him to put things right?
I have to say this Julie, but if he was that bothered wouldn't he contact you? You think by apologising for the things you've done wrong that you'll feel better in yourself then do that to get some closure. Having said that a lot of the time you can think you're in the wrong when you're actually not so try to make sure before you do that. I'd suggest writing him a letter so that you don't have to meet him in person.
My interpretation of Josie's reply to this letter is
1 - If John was that bothered about her - he would contact her
2. - Did she write him a letter - did we not see this on one of the adverts for the programme??
3. - Be careful not to take the blame for too much just to get your bloke back - did she do this initially with John James?
4. He's supposedly moved on!!!!! Strange - why not He's moved on! End of!!
5. We were both very much in love............... well she reckons she's only been in love once ????
6. Friends on both sides - got involved big style
7. Is she reaaally saying - John if you were that bothered (like you said you were) you would contact me. NOW!”
Good analysis lover
Originally Posted by JJJ lover:
“Well my time has come to leave this wonderful place!
It reaaally is soooo sad!
But I must!!
it's Hard I know
I'm going to miss you all
and some of you may even miss me a little!
Everyone will have to face this decision sometime though!
So I've faced it now - before things get any worse
Real life is calling me
So Goodbye
For now
I'm off to do some more painting!
Speak to you all later!!”
pmsl
You big tease. Thought we were going to have a Johnny James style speech on our hands. Raskle you
