Multiquoting for England - so please feel free to totally ignore
Originally Posted by Lena J:
“Hi Deefs, I was so disappointed when I read that your post had been for the highjump, I'm sure it would have made interesting reading. I lost one the other night and all I did was say hello to the newbie and confirmed for them something about someone on twitter and their connection with someone else on fb: and it disappeared within fifteen minutes!:”
Thank you Lena - I believe you are right - I am sure it was of great interest - but it's time for me to let go and move on - if they delete this mega-quote heads will roll
Originally Posted by
ucra girl:
“Welldone to Sam Pepper
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I agree Sam Pepper is a bit of a love - he appears to have a heart of gold under that rather annoying exterior.
Originally Posted by
CheekySAUCISSON:
“Hola!! Just wanted to bring my thoughts over from next door for anyone who may give a rip
But my view (for what it is worth) on the 'TO TWEET OR NOT TO TWEET?' John debate: I firmly believe that everybody has the right to use their own twitter accounts for whatever purposes, to tweet whatever opinions, give whatever information about their life as little or as often as they please. Yes, it is sad that we don't get to hear from him as much now (not that he was the most religious tweeter even when he lived in the UK .. he'd go weeks without tweeting then too but then come back with a BANG and tweet heaps!) but we must respect that. It is up to him!! Of course I'd like him to tweet more (I won't pretend that I wouldn't like that) but I don't think it is fair of his followers to pester him or try to guilt him into tweeting.
(I don't mean that nobody should tweet him .. tweet him as much as you like - maybe you'll persuade him to come out and play?)
Let him come to us on twitter when he feels ready or when he has something to say. And should the day come when he decides to delete his account .. we'll just have to deal with that because it is his life after all - to live it the way he sees fit. The way that makes him happy.
I agree with Ali and Heidi's posts on the subject. I just don't think he knows WHAT the hell to say now .. that he hasn't already. He's smart - he knows that aaaaanything he does tweet will be jumped on, reading between the lines will happen, some will ASSUME it relates to Josie or the way he feels about her in some way (whether that be positively or negatively) there will be a million different interpretations flying around - most of which will be WAY off the mark .. look at what happens when he just 's at us for goodness sake!! I can't blame him for taking a twitter back seat (for however long he wishes to do so) .. he must wonder if it's really worth the hassle.
He doesn't owe us one little thing - we're not entitled to a travelogue of all the activities of his day (he's not living his life on a twitter 24/7 live feed like the BB days - although I'd like to have a little glimpse and see how he IS and what he's doing back home) I like to think that it is like Kay says and that he is ENJOYING himself - this is what I'm choosing to believe anyway (I wouldn't like to think of him being miserable in life) Plus, isn't there more to life than TWITTER and other social networking sites????? *Gasps* YES, SHE DID SAY IT!!!!
I know - a crazy notion isn't it? I try not to spend too much time on there as it is hard to stop tweeting when you start a 'session.'”
Lovely post and agree - just miss him tweeting really - bit selfish I know - but got used to him - liked him - would like to see more of him
Originally Posted by bblover:
“Do you think LF will return after CBB?”
I hope so but think not - I was talking to a friend earlier on twitter about this - I think they wont more control to edit - last year the LF allowed us to see the real HM and not the ones they would have liked us to see (are you with me

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Originally Posted by annemarie1066:
“They had already had a taste of Sam when his hat went missing. I've never been so grateful for volume control”
Ditto - "Mute" never looked so good.
Originally Posted by bblover:
“John James dancing is always fun...neh”
There is a clip with John James and Andrew dancing (well I say dancing - but you know what I mean) so funnnnnnnnnny if anyone comes across it could they post it please - think its round the glee task time.
Originally Posted by AlexBB3:
“But this illustrates exactly the problem I outlined. You've made a subjective judgement that the Corin/Sam wig-gate episode was worse than my examples 1-10. I wouldn't agree with that analysis, example 1 was the worst example of house bullying imo. You think Corin became "genuinely upset", whereas I think Keeva became "genuinely upset". And the fact that Keeva felt she had to walk out a day later, whereas Corin didn't, suggests my psychological analysis may be the more correct one. You say Corin was very isolated, but I just don't see that. She may not have been helped about the makeup but HMs generally were on friendly terms with her (unlike Keeva's isolation) - so she should have been (and indeed was) able to cope.
So let's say Corin has an insecurity about her wigs/makeup, John has an insecurity about being called crabeyes and Josie has an insecurity about everything (according to her fans). Which insecurities do you want BB to protect, to avoid cruelty to HMs. After all John had to put up with crabeye taunts at various points over many weeks - was that cruel, or should he just man-up on a gameshow?
I might be able to buy into your approach if I thought there was some way of avoiding it spiralling into a victim's charter. In particular, I'd hate to introduce an incentive for those who whine (DQs and complainers) rather than those who just get on with things. In the context of this discussion, it's worth saying though that I don't think either Keeva or Corin are in the former category - so in that case it boils down to whether a line was crossed whereby they needed protection.
Of course there must always be boundaries and clear cut bullying yes, HMs are entitled to be protected . . . but let's remember that FMs are complaining every few minutes on this forum that someone or other is being bullied so BB have a very subjective call to make most of the time. I just think that regardless where we draw those boundaries, FMs will always have very different views about when they've been crossed - as you and I have just demonstrated in our respective "sympathies" for Corin and Keeva.”
Keeva felt she had no option than to leave - though it would have taken a minor earthquake for Corin to budge but the bullying was of equal degree to my way of thinking.
Originally Posted by
bblover:
“Andrew and his affairs with the melons and apple pies?
I think another one of the funniest moments imo,was Ben in the DR with the clown ROFL”
My favourite moment - after John had left and they were in the bedroom building a fort - funniest thing in the whole series.
Originally Posted by
muggins14:
“Right, I guess I have to go and be mother for a while dammit lol
Talk soon, cheery-bye
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Dont be long - I am actually missing you this evening x