Originally Posted by nickymonger:
“I don't think she'll return either. I personally would hate Ronnie and the "widowed" man. Mainly because stereotypically widowed men are nice and boring. That just isn't Ronnie. Joel also highlighted that. And I don't understand wanting to change Ronnie into someone she's not. ie. have Ronnie settle down with mr nice and boring. She would get bored. A guy can adore her without being boring and nice. Why not a divorced business man who has kids? The truth is that Ronnie has treated some people, including Jack equally as badly as she has been treated (excluding Archie). She isn't your nicey nice character either.”
What crap! My sister married a widowed man and he is anything but boring. Just because your spouse dies does not make you boring. I would just prefer her to be with a man and not have the issue of the baby mommas about. We have already tackled that with Jack. Also if the mother is on the scene Ronnie will not be required to step into the mothers shoes. Whereas if the mother has died the children might be looking to a female role model. I think it would be more boring to have Ronnie with a man who has kids with someone else still on the scene we got that already. Joel was not a nice man nor was he widowed. He was a married man who had kids with his wife. Again this is boring.
And EE should never be scared to break away from sterotypes Grant Mitchell (not that I am even slightly suggesting him) is a widow. Hardly Mr Nice Guy even in his 2nd stint. Depsite being calmer we still had him threatening to break the arm of a teenage girl. Not that I want this guy to be nasty like that but I am making a point. So I can imagine all sorts of problems and issues. He does not need to be Mr Nice and Boring. Not sure where that sterotype of yours comes from but not EE thats for sure. I saw this suggested on another forum and at the time remember thinking what a good idea it was.
I can imagine a widowed man would be ultra protective of his kids. Imagine if they got together and she bonded with the kids and nobody told him that she had just come out of prison? Now we all know the backstory of why she did what she did. But most people who do not would react with panic especially if they were around their children. It would be a good place to properly investigate why she did what she did. A 2 hander with him but her doing most of the talking. Her mental issues were brushed aside and most characters including Jack and Roxy who know the problems would not be suitable for such a episode. But a new man would not be. We never did get a proper reveal via the rape, or really get into why she did what she did. It was glossed over in favour of Kat's view. This would be her explaining herself and getting
her view. By the way that man my sister married was sucessful, very good looking and widowed young. He was not boring in the slightest, why not have a new hunk with kids on the show? And instead of it being issues with yet another woman who can produce healthy children which has been done to death with joke Jack, the issues being Ronnie being a mother to children who like her have suffered grief? A baby who would grow up with Ronnie as their mother and older kids who feel they can talk to Ronnie in a way they can not their father? Give the children a story rather than just be part of this new characters background. They have suffered grief, so has Ronnie. Maybe the older one understands why Ronnie did what she did before the father. Simply because he is not Mr Nice guy.