Too late....he got his backdoors smashed in earlier this evening.

you'll feel guilty, i know i have when i found out later, or after the deed (only two guys i knew was with a lass), i was a amoral bastard in my youth, i would never do it now, its just not the thing to do

What can I say? It's me, people normally expect this kinda shit from me.


He took it well though, nice and tight

Birthday cake!

Thanks.


I did!

If you say so.


Thanks! I don't think there is a year I've been on DS, where you haven't wished me happy birthday!


Haha, pot, kettle, black right?

Happy Birthday Cakey Hope you have a wonderfully special day! Covering all bases here so *delivers choccy, sponge and christmas cake just for good measure*
Ha! I thought you were getting a free concert outta him Ahh well, have fun at it!

Ohhh do we get Comedy Central on Uni stations? I hope E4 gets something decent on now it no longer shows Scrubs at a good time either!!

*slaps head* I'm such a fail! A=Pi.r^2

Haha, really? An now you can get a international one to add you to list!

You clear yhave never met my brother. Urgh, *groans* They get here in less than 12 hours

Uni stations? Never heard of this... I just have standard freeview at uni, I with i had Living

hope you have a great bday cakey

Already said it on Facebook, but happy birthday Jason, you old man

Im not the only one then

We're both homewreckers

Btw happy b-day Crimbo, ya old git

Happy Birthday Chrimbocake! Hope you have a great day, someone as nice as you thoroughly deserves one! xxx

I <3 you. For the cake I mean. Actually, I <3 cake!


That's the only international one this year! Usually I get more.


Thanks, just going out with family today!


I'm not old! I've decided, each year, I get a year younger now.

Thanks btw!


Thanks! Less of the old though eh?


Aww, thanks Sammy.

My niece is screaming at the moment, so I'm stuck here till she goes to sleep, after that I can go out to Stevenage and do something. Dunno what yet!

You're both slags who can't keep it in your pants...



And happy birthday Cakey... much love to you... and I'm not a pot, I'm a lovely china tea set.

I would have felt more guilty if his mrs found out and then the kids suffered (another thing he LIED to me about when I was with him , I would never want to be half of the reason a family is torn apart.)

Did my last comment make this thread awkward?

I knew beforehand he was married and he had a child, but I still did it. I don't see the problem, it was consensual, and he wanted a cock up his arse. It's only polite

He's been texting me since though wanting to meet up again

I personally wouldn't do that, do you not think about what'll happen if his mrs finds out then the child may lose his/her dad? plus a woman looses her hubby. The only good would be him being exposed as the rat he is.

I have no say atall in what you get up to Lettuce but that I must say is atrocious.

I just don't agree with it Sensual, I mean I know I can't change you, but shagging married Men isn't my kind of thing... I just don't feel it is right.

I don't see a problem with it. He's the one with sexuality and marriage issues. It was consensual, it was his choice. And it's not the first time either, he's bisexual and been sleeping with blokes for years. I'm just one of many, there is no emotional attachment. I'm not gonna fall in love with this one. My head is in a mess right now and I simply want sex.

He could've said no, but he didn't. He wanted to meet up, and he was fully aware what it could lead too, and it did.

YOU could have said no, Sensual, he's a married man... it's a two way street, this guy sounds absolutely moronic... but it doesn't make it right for you to have sex with him though, I know you're in a mess and I know you want sex but you don't need to have sex with a married man to get it... but you obviously see nothing wrong with it so I'm just going to be quiet and leave you too it.

if doesn't matter if he's been doing it for years, what this man is doing it not OK and you're aware of the fact that he has a wife and a kid and by having sex with him you're condoning what he's doing and that really makes you no better than him.

Of course he'd go through with it, after all he's the one in the wrong after all. It simply doesn't demonstrate any consideration for his family whatsoever, and his wife would have you by the neck if she finds out, god forbid.

"let him without sin cast the first stone"

Applies here. Regardless of the circumstances, of his family, and at the risk of sounding like a dick, it's not my problem. Who am I to judge him sleeping with men behind his wife's back? None whatsoever. It's his choice, and whatever issues he's got going on, they're his doing. He knows the risk and yet he still chooses to do this shit. He can stop at anytime, and that's fine. I'm not saying I'm being mislead at all, I'm in the wrong too yes, but the difference is that I'm one with nothing to lose.

I have no moral obligation to his wife, I've never met her. She's in a different country, I don't know her.

Ha! You make him sound like a lovely sibling
Oh, we got some other channels in addition to freeview like MTV and stuff and I was just wondering if we also got Sky1 or Comedy Central. Here's hoping I do!
Haha you're welcome Cakey Hope you had a good day!

Oh and thanks Sammy for being a good luck charm! You were definitely right the other week when you said things would be turning around for me soon! That placement I applied for in London I've got

I don't care whether I sound like a prude here or not, but personally I think your attitude stinks! How you can honestly say you don't care and have no obligations etc because you have nothing to lose is a completely selfish attitude and you should seriously consider what you're doing long and hard. Try having some compassion and thinking of what this would do to his kids if this came out Would you still feel like you had nothing to lose if you got a reputation for destroying a marriage and tearing a family apart? Anyway, I've had my say so I'll leave it there, but I do hope you think about what you're doing before it's too late.