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The DS Gay Members Thread (Part 8)
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Mattty
15-01-2012
Sounds like fun! What's SATC?

Share the M&M's?
Scotty2012
15-01-2012
Sex And The City

You can have my last few M&M's
Mattty
15-01-2012
Thanks. M&M's are sooooooooooooooo awesome!!!!
Scotty2012
15-01-2012
I only eat them now and then. My favourite are the crunchy ones in the blue bag but the shop near me doesn't sell them.
Mattty
15-01-2012
Really? How strange. The peanut one are my favourite ones though. I love nuts
Scotty2012
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by Mattty:
“Really? How strange. The peanut one are my favourite ones though. I love nuts ”

I'll resist the temptation to reply with more innuendo.
Wanna f**k?
Mattty
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by Scotty2012:
“I'll resist the temptation to reply with more innuendo.
Wanna f**k? ”

Not really. I am sooo tired.

And the "I love nuts" thing wasn't meant to be innuendo. I just love nuts. Peanuts, Walnuts, Cashew Nuts, Hazelnuts and every other nut you can think of.
Scotty2012
15-01-2012
I like peanuts and cashew nuts but not keen on the others mind.

Oh well, guess I'll have to have a w**k then. (you know, the usual)
Mattty
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by Scotty2012:
“Oh well, guess I'll have to have a w**k then. (you know, the usual)”

Don't worry, I know how you feel.
javjamoll84
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by Mattty:
“Not really. I am sooo tired.

And the "I love nuts" thing wasn't meant to be innuendo. I just love nuts. Peanuts, Walnuts, Cashew Nuts, Hazelnuts and every other nut you can think of. ”

No pistachio?
Mattty
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by javjamoll84:
“No pistachio? ”

yeah they're good too
javjamoll84
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by Mattty:
“ yeah they're good too ”

Ooooh, didn't expect anyone to still be up.

How are you? Not seen your name appear in a while xD
Mattty
15-01-2012
Yeah I'm okay thanks. I'm just about to go to bed actually.

How are you?
javjamoll84
15-01-2012
Oooooo,good night

I'm not too bad. Watching this weeks Secret Circle.
Mattty
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by javjamoll84:
“Oooooo,good night

I'm not too bad. Watching this weeks Secret Circle.”

I've never heard of that show if I'm honest.

Well I'm going to bed now. Goodnight
ChristmasCake
15-01-2012
I'm heading out shortly but I thought I'd post in here for some advice. Basically, when I was about 18/19 I got introduced to someone on-line. At the time I was, err, well not in a good state mentally, I was still struggling with my sexuality and some other things, and I ended up with an unhealthy attachment to this guy.

He is a really nice guy, really funny, and he was always quite caring. We remained in contact for about two years, but he started pulling away from everyone, feeling that he was spending too much time on-line (something I was doing at the time, but hadn't realised), he cut contact completely with the people who had introduced us, and cut contact with me.

I recently found him on facebook. I wasn't looking for him, but just happened to spot him through the whole friends of friends thing. I kind of feel like I owe him an apology, but I'm not entirely sure whether he'd want to hear from me.

I'm not sure basically whether I should be selfish and send an apology to make myself feel better, or to just leave it as it is.
Mattty
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“I'm heading out shortly but I thought I'd post in here for some advice. Basically, when I was about 18/19 I got introduced to someone on-line. At the time I was, err, well not in a good state mentally, I was still struggling with my sexuality and some other things, and I ended up with an unhealthy attachment to this guy.

He is a really nice guy, really funny, and he was always quite caring. We remained in contact for about two years, but he started pulling away from everyone, feeling that he was spending too much time on-line (something I was doing at the time, but hadn't realised), he cut contact completely with the people who had introduced us, and cut contact with me.

I recently found him on facebook. I wasn't looking for him, but just happened to spot him through the whole friends of friends thing. I kind of feel like I owe him an apology, but I'm not entirely sure whether he'd want to hear from me.

I'm not sure basically whether I should be selfish and send an apology to make myself feel better, or to just leave it as it is.”


I am guessing that it has been about 3 or 4 years since you last communicated with each other so I don't think messaging him will be a bad thing, even if it is just a "Hi, How are you?"

I'm a bit confused though, why do you feel like apologising to him?
Adam792
15-01-2012
If it's going to make you feel better then I would say go for it and message him with an open mind. If nothing else it will give you some closure.

Plus, I wouldn't think of it as something selfish as the fact that you want to apologise means that you obviously care.
BBWorldWideFan
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“I'm heading out shortly but I thought I'd post in here for some advice. Basically, when I was about 18/19 I got introduced to someone on-line. At the time I was, err, well not in a good state mentally, I was still struggling with my sexuality and some other things, and I ended up with an unhealthy attachment to this guy.

He is a really nice guy, really funny, and he was always quite caring. We remained in contact for about two years, but he started pulling away from everyone, feeling that he was spending too much time on-line (something I was doing at the time, but hadn't realised), he cut contact completely with the people who had introduced us, and cut contact with me.

I recently found him on facebook. I wasn't looking for him, but just happened to spot him through the whole friends of friends thing. I kind of feel like I owe him an apology, but I'm not entirely sure whether he'd want to hear from me.

I'm not sure basically whether I should be selfish and send an apology to make myself feel better, or to just leave it as it is.”

Yeah like Matty said a simple message saying 'hi' wouldn't hurt, at least tehn you'll know whether he wants to talk or not. But why do you feel you owe him an apology?
natures_law
15-01-2012
Good evening. Everyone OK?
ChristmasCake
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by Adam792:
“If it's going to make you feel better then I would say go for it and message him with an open mind. If nothing else it will give you some closure.

Plus, I wouldn't think of it as something selfish as the fact that you want to apologise means that you obviously care. ”

I guess I feel it's selfish because the apology would make me feel better. I also feel like it's easier to apologise than it is to forgive.

Originally Posted by Mattty:
“I am guessing that it has been about 3 or 4 years since you last communicated with each other so I don't think messaging him will be a bad thing, even if it is just a "Hi, How are you?"

I'm a bit confused though, why do you feel like apologising to him?”


Originally Posted by BBWorldWideFan:
“Yeah like Matty said a simple message saying 'hi' wouldn't hurt, at least tehn you'll know whether he wants to talk or not. But why do you feel you owe him an apology?”

I did some things back then that I'm not exactly proud of. I wasn't exactly the nicest person to him. I guess I just want to apologise for being a bit of a dick.
natures_law
15-01-2012
Can I just say I admire you Christmas Cake. I have read your posts before.

May I PM you please because I know you are young, but I value your experience
ChristmasCake
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by natures_law:
“Can I just say I admire you Christmas Cake. I have read your posts before.

May I PM you please because I know you are young, but I value your experience ”

Sure you can. I often receive a PM or two on here, so I don't mind .
BBWorldWideFan
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“I did some things back then that I'm not exactly proud of. I wasn't exactly the nicest person to him. I guess I just want to apologise for being a bit of a dick.”

Then yeah I think definately try talking to him, and if you do/don't get a reply then at least you'll know what he thinks, you were all young, and people can change even in a short period of time, you're all fully grown adults now
natures_law
15-01-2012
Originally Posted by BBWorldWideFan:
“Then yeah I think definately try talking to him, and if you do/don't get a reply then at least you'll know what he thinks, you were all young, and people can change even in a short period of time, you're all fully grown adults now ”

I'm an adult? Oooh eck

Sorry
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