I'm heading out shortly but I thought I'd post in here for some advice. Basically, when I was about 18/19 I got introduced to someone on-line. At the time I was, err, well not in a good state mentally, I was still struggling with my sexuality and some other things, and I ended up with an unhealthy attachment to this guy.
He is a really nice guy, really funny, and he was always quite caring. We remained in contact for about two years, but he started pulling away from everyone, feeling that he was spending too much time on-line (something I was doing at the time, but hadn't realised), he cut contact completely with the people who had introduced us, and cut contact with me.
I recently found him on facebook. I wasn't looking for him, but just happened to spot him through the whole friends of friends thing. I kind of feel like I owe him an apology, but I'm not entirely sure whether he'd want to hear from me.
I'm not sure basically whether I should be selfish and send an apology to make myself feel better, or to just leave it as it is.