Right, lots of BB thoughts going on I need to have a look at MF to see what's being said and add a few thoughts of my own, really into it now 
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The John James & Josie Appreciation Thread (Part 205)
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Originally Posted by muggins14:
“No of course she wouldn't jump into an engagement, I agree with that absolutely
Just that there are many reasons, possibilities etc for things Including the hoodie - it's hoodie season, we are all wearing them, Josie does have access to shops to buy her own lol”
“No of course she wouldn't jump into an engagement, I agree with that absolutely
Just that there are many reasons, possibilities etc for things Including the hoodie - it's hoodie season, we are all wearing them, Josie does have access to shops to buy her own lol”
like i said sorry for bringing the ring and hoddie up like i said im a over possetivpolly so sorry if i started somthing
Originally Posted by queenbdeb:
“like i said sorry for bringing the ring and hoddie up like i said im a over possetivpolly so sorry if i started somthing”
“like i said sorry for bringing the ring and hoddie up like i said im a over possetivpolly so sorry if i started somthing
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Don't apologise it does look like johns hoody and his ring so it did occur to me as well and this is the place to bring it up if you wish
Originally Posted by queenbdeb:
“like i said sorry for bringing the ring and hoddie up like i said im a over possetivpolly so sorry if i started somthing”
“like i said sorry for bringing the ring and hoddie up like i said im a over possetivpolly so sorry if i started somthing
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You have absolutely nothing to apologise for- you bring any subject up you want hun, it gets us all talking and that can only be a good thing.
it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.
Hiya just thought I would post something about the ring since I'm on a boring bus journey:yawn: When my cousin and his wife split up she returned everything he and any of his family had ever bought her 
And although I wouldn't go to that extreme I personally wouldn't wear a ring an ex bought me especially if I have a new boyfriend but that is me and maybe Josie don't think it's that big a deal ( that's of course it is a ring that John bought her ) xx
And although I wouldn't go to that extreme I personally wouldn't wear a ring an ex bought me especially if I have a new boyfriend but that is me and maybe Josie don't think it's that big a deal ( that's of course it is a ring that John bought her ) xx
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
Wow - to the point.
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
Totally agree with you. But as we always say on this thread people may post what they wish. It's not always easy but heyho, we've kept going this long - we usually get over our little hiccups. The thread is high and wide and eternal enough to encompass all points of view. It still sways back and forth between the various viewpoints although I would say an obvious one is all but gone off into oblivion except for an occasional squeak here and there.
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too
xxx
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
“it's a couple of months since i last posted so here goes.i wish people would except there is no john &josie .they have both gone their seperate ways.no way in gods creation are they ever going to be together again or even be friends.they are happy now and i think should be left to get on with their lives .it seems more than obvious to me john no longer wants to keep in touch,seems he only posts on twitter out of politeness.please just let it lie and appreciate them seperately.”
Hi Trixie
I am not one of those people thinking they will get back together again, but I don't see what harm the positive pollys are doing they are only expressing their own views and opinions. This is just my opinion of course
Originally Posted by kfb:
“Totally agree with you. But as we always say on this thread people may post what they wish. It's not always easy but heyho, we've kept going this long - we usually get over our little hiccups. The thread is high and wide and eternal enough to encompass all points of view. It still sways back and forth between the various viewpoints although I would say an obvious one is all but gone off into oblivion except for an occasional squeak here and there.”
“Totally agree with you. But as we always say on this thread people may post what they wish. It's not always easy but heyho, we've kept going this long - we usually get over our little hiccups. The thread is high and wide and eternal enough to encompass all points of view. It still sways back and forth between the various viewpoints although I would say an obvious one is all but gone off into oblivion except for an occasional squeak here and there.”
it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
Nobody on here was arguing over that .. they were DISCUSSING
It is what many of us do on here. And if you think it really is so trivial then don't let it make you so angry!
Why can't people stop giving us advice we don't need it sorry we exist because we tolerate each others views surely it is hard but we have managed so far some people have one view and others the complete opposite we don't need to change anybody's minds to accept and tolerate each other
Originally Posted by CheekySAUCISSON:
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too xxx”
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too
xxx”
Cheeky, this person was just expressing an opinion. She's as entitled to express it as you or I do from our different viewpoints. I didn't interpret her as saying we had to go off to the individual threads at all or she would have said that. I thought she was saying the same as some of us on here are saying, that we can appreciate them as separate beings rather than as a couple of the past, a separated couple of the present, or a potential reunion in the future. I, for one, as you know, agree with her.
Originally Posted by CheekySAUCISSON:
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too xxx”
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too
xxx”
You write things so much better than me
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
This thread is a haven for some of us you can't possibly know what on earth people are facing in their real lives you astonish me
Originally Posted by CheekySAUCISSON:
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too xxx”
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too
xxx”
i have my point of view and you yours lets agree to differ people are so petty on here that is why people have left as there is alot of hate on hear that's why i haven't posted for so long but what i read has made me feel angry .
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
I know where you're coming from and to you and me it may not be of consequence but if it is to some people that is their prerogative to say so. I don't really understand what the discussion is about. Doesn't Josie wear the watch an awful lot that John gave her? No one appears to have mentioned that. A ring? A hoodie? Does it really matter? I've kept and worn things from boyfriends from long, long ago just because I liked them. Other people obviously see these things differently. It all depends on each poster's individual circumstances and experiences how they view situations. It's a good job we have so many different viewpoints or this thread would have died a long time ago.
Originally Posted by kfb:
“Cheeky, this person was just expressing an opinion. She's as entitled to express it as you or I do from our different viewpoints. I didn't interpret her as saying we had to go off to the individual threads at all or she would have said that. I thought she was saying the same as some of us on here are saying, that we can appreciate them as separate beings rather than as a couple of the past, a separated couple of the present, or a potential reunion in the future. I, for one, as you know, agree with her.”
“Cheeky, this person was just expressing an opinion. She's as entitled to express it as you or I do from our different viewpoints. I didn't interpret her as saying we had to go off to the individual threads at all or she would have said that. I thought she was saying the same as some of us on here are saying, that we can appreciate them as separate beings rather than as a couple of the past, a separated couple of the present, or a potential reunion in the future. I, for one, as you know, agree with her.
”
I know and I am just expressing mine back. She clearly doesn't like our opinions on here so I am just explaining where I disagree (as so many on here often do. I don't see why I'm can't to) That is what we ARE doing though!!!!
Originally Posted by CheekySAUCISSON:
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too xxx”
“So what are you saying, that we should only be posting on their individual appreciation threads?? As far as I can tell there IS a John and Josie as both of them are very much alive! No, they aren't together but that doesn't mean that this thread can't exist. It started before they were even in a relationship. I respect these are your views but why can't you respect others views? Some people think they will get back together one day - who are they hurting? Some people think the same as you. Some people believe they will be friends again in the future and hope for that (I'm in that camp) - I'm not going to have my thoughts and opinions so dismissed. Because we have no way of seeing into the future to be so final and say for absolute certain one way or the other .. nobody knows what lies in store in their lives. We don't even know that John is happy - it is only assumed that he is .. we WANT him to be but we don't have a way of knowing this.
And how are we stopping them from getting on with their lives by posting our thoughts on here? The only way they will see them is if John or Josie look on here? So, you stick to what you want to do and we'll keep doing things our way too
xxx”
love this post xx
i feel if you have a different opinion on here the other people shoot you down in flames but i'm not sorry i'm proud of me views as you will be of yours this is a forum after all and i'm going to comment if i'm not happy .
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“i have my point of view and you yours lets agree to differ people are so petty on here that is why people have left as there is alot of hate on hear that's why i haven't posted for so long but what i read has made me feel angry .”
“i have my point of view and you yours lets agree to differ people are so petty on here that is why people have left as there is alot of hate on hear that's why i haven't posted for so long but what i read has made me feel angry .”
I just don't think it is fair for you to come on here and label posters as 'so petty' and say there is 'a lot of hate on here' ... it's like you are blaming us for chasing you away or something. I understand you feeling angry when you read things you don't like, I feel that way sometimes too. I just wanted to address why I strongly disagree with some of the points you have made. And I'm sorry to say that several of your posts on here today have made me feel angry too ..
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
No-one was arguing. You don't have to read it, you know? People can discuss what they want within the terms and conditions of DS and it's rules. And even then, it's up to DS and only DS to decide a subject is not allowed.
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
“it makes me so angry that people are arguing wether someone wears a ring.when people are dying everyday really a ring .”
WELL DONT READ THIS THREAD IF U DONT LIKE WHAT SAID ON IT
Originally Posted by kfb:
“I know where you're coming from and to you and me it may not be of consequence but if it is to some people that is their prerogative to say so. I don't really understand what the discussion is about. Doesn't Josie wear the watch an awful lot that John gave her? No one appears to have mentioned that. A ring? A hoodie? Does it really matter? I've kept and worn things from boyfriends from long, long ago just because I liked them. Other people obviously see these things differently. It all depends on each poster's individual circumstances and experiences how they view situations. It's a good job we have so many different viewpoints or this thread would have died a long time ago.”
“I know where you're coming from and to you and me it may not be of consequence but if it is to some people that is their prerogative to say so. I don't really understand what the discussion is about. Doesn't Josie wear the watch an awful lot that John gave her? No one appears to have mentioned that. A ring? A hoodie? Does it really matter? I've kept and worn things from boyfriends from long, long ago just because I liked them. Other people obviously see these things differently. It all depends on each poster's individual circumstances and experiences how they view situations. It's a good job we have so many different viewpoints or this thread would have died a long time ago.
”
They used to Kay
Originally Posted by queenbdeb:
“love this post xx”
“love this post xx”
Cheers lovey xx
Originally Posted by trixie54:
“i feel if you have a different opinion on here the other people shoot you down in flames but i'm not sorry i'm proud of me views as you will be of yours this is a forum after all and i'm going to comment if i'm not happy .”
“i feel if you have a different opinion on here the other people shoot you down in flames but i'm not sorry i'm proud of me views as you will be of yours this is a forum after all and i'm going to comment if i'm not happy .”
You can have any opinion on here that you want
But it seemed like you were shooting down in flames those who had opinions that made YOU angry. I'm like you in that respect though, I comment if I see posts that I'm not happy with. And I have to be honest, it actually felt like you were doing some of the things you've come here accusing other posters of doing x
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