Originally Posted by PICKLES60:
“well it is impossible to compare we know absolutely loads about one and absolutely nothing about the other except his age and occupation . We don't even know if he is currently working or unemployed working partime or fulltime. We don't know if he likes footie, fifa, staying in biting his toenails or anything.We know nothing about him so I won't compare the relationship . All I base my instincts on are Josie and I know she is incapable of keeping quiet for long about someone she is enamoured of she can try but can she do it for long? I would bet my granny she can't. I just think they are together but not seriously but like I said I might be wrong.
PS good to see you back on the thread againxx”
There is no need for comparision though.... This is how it should be with relationships. We shouldn't know everything...... We shouldnt' know every detail.
We got so spoilt with JJJ. We got to see them 24/7 for three months. Like who get's that when a relationship is built. Their relatioship was like no other BB relatioship ever cause we saw it ALL before our eyes. We saw it slowly turning into something special. Then when they were out in the real wordls we were again spoilt. We saw them on magazines talking about each other, we saw the documentary, we could see everything happening in our minds that they were saying cause we had seen them fight, love and live in BB, so we assumed all their fights were like on BB, all their love was like on BB. We imagined it and then we demanded more and more and more and they gave us more... But even when they didn't give us anything we could still imagine it happen.....
And now that they are no more, we can't picture them with anyone else, doing the same things. We saw how they comforted each other if the other was upset, we saw how they looked at each other and we can't imagine them doing the same with anyone else. They can't do it with anyone else..... God forbid Josie stroking anyone else's hair, God forbid John putting his arms around someone else and saying "it's ok, it's ok". Cause in our minds those actions are reserved for just them.
So now the only thing left is to repeat over and over again "we just don't know anything, we don't know if it's even serious" as if that then makes it better cause we don't have to think that they would be serious with new people......