Originally Posted by BMLisa:
“I wouldn't post this on the Aaron thread because I'm very aware of not wanting to bring Faye stuff over there! I am trying my hardest to only comment now if it relates solely to Aaron.
But another reason I don't want Faye out is because she won't get any balance about her relationship!
I don't for one second think she is blameless in their issues although I blame the vast majority on interference by hm's BB and her family.
I would like Faye to come out on final night because if Aaron is doing well there is no way they can focus on the negatives. I'd really like her to be told ( maybe by someone like Vanessa) that the other HM's were not her friends and were trying to take her out of the game.
I can't see any other focus if she goes this week other than "so how do you feel about Aaron getting you evicted?"
I actually do think she needs to be told a few home truths about how Aaron has never put her down to other HM's, how he has stood by her when it would have been so much easier to just let go, how he saved her from a one on one with Anton. i feel if she goes out this week it won't be the focus.
He may not make messages out of bog roll etc, but he loves her, that is plain to me. I want Faye to be shown that he adores her, not that he wanted her out of the game! that will never happen if she goes this week!”
“I wouldn't post this on the Aaron thread because I'm very aware of not wanting to bring Faye stuff over there! I am trying my hardest to only comment now if it relates solely to Aaron.
But another reason I don't want Faye out is because she won't get any balance about her relationship!
I don't for one second think she is blameless in their issues although I blame the vast majority on interference by hm's BB and her family.
I would like Faye to come out on final night because if Aaron is doing well there is no way they can focus on the negatives. I'd really like her to be told ( maybe by someone like Vanessa) that the other HM's were not her friends and were trying to take her out of the game.
I can't see any other focus if she goes this week other than "so how do you feel about Aaron getting you evicted?"
I actually do think she needs to be told a few home truths about how Aaron has never put her down to other HM's, how he has stood by her when it would have been so much easier to just let go, how he saved her from a one on one with Anton. i feel if she goes out this week it won't be the focus.
He may not make messages out of bog roll etc, but he loves her, that is plain to me. I want Faye to be shown that he adores her, not that he wanted her out of the game! that will never happen if she goes this week!”
I totally agree Lisa. I am going to try to stay out of the Aaron Thread, not because I am taking sides in this relationship, not because I dislike Aaron because I really want him to win BB this year, but because I cannot honestly see how people can be making judgments and decisions for him. He seems very fond of Faye and she of him. I dont know whether they are really in "love" time will tell. There will be many difficulties for both of them to get over.
She makes him happy, most of the time. He makes her happy, most of the time. That is what relationships are about. No-one is ever happy all of the time, that is impossible. They come with baggage and insecurities, that is just the way it is. I cant see how anyone can lay the blame at the door of either of them when they fall out, they both have faults. Sometimes there is misunderstanding and miscommunication, that is life and relationships.
I worry sometimes that fms get far too emotionally involved in their chosen one to be able to take a step back and take an objective view of things. We may not all agree about the why's and wherefore's but if you appreciate someone you want what they want for themselves.
Rant over
