Originally Posted by fondantfancy:
“Okey dokey.
Which bit of my post was 'righteous'? Where did I say (or even imply) that either I (or Anton) were better than people who drink?
Which bit of my post suggested that Nancy should be humiliated?
Which actual words?”
If we must.
Original post:
"If she is drinking then it wouldn't surprise me if Anton quits - he is very anti booze because of an alcoholic father. (And having had an alcoholic mother I don't blame him one bit.)"
You say it wouldn't surprise you if Anton quits because he had an alcoholic father and is anti-booze. This would suggest that Anton quitting would be based on a principle derived from personal traumatic experience. This would be a righteous act.
Anton quitting would mean Nancy would be out of the show. That he quit because he refused to dance with an alcoholic or a person who drinks would, for Nancy, be quite humiliating.
You go on to condone this action by using your own personal experience with an alcoholic as back-up.
There. I'm not saying that was your intent, and you've clarified it wasn't and I accept that totally, but it's a perfectly reasonable interpretation of what you wrote.