Originally Posted by gussiecat:
“Well well well. I see the jat have come in to tell us off again. Really, JAT, Really. Did we call Josie names, did we say she was the worst type of human being? No some are just a little sceptical at all of the happiness talk. Of course we are happy if Josie is happy. Of course we want John to be happy. I agree Josie has been hurt, taking her time, (BF moving in , in a couple of months) seems happy etc. Fantastic. Really .
However call me a catty cow but draw me up a checklist of everything that is wrong with John and we have Lukey. Draw me up a checklist of Josie's failings and who do you have? But then again we arent watching them 24hr a days, I dont know them personally and therefore have no inside information on their exact feelings and plans as some do, I dont read their personal facebook pages etc so I take what i see on the mag articles. And lets face it even the John and Josie ones up till the end papered over the cracks.
I am pleased Josie is having some fun , she deserves it, so does John.
I apologise to the JAT late shift who take exception to anybody having a sense of humour about situations. I will repeat the mantra " THOU SHALL NOT LAUGH ON THE THREAD OR MAKE COMMENTS ABOUT JOSIE." at least 100 times a day as penance for my catty cowishness.”
I can see where it looked like this, but we all came of our own accord and posted different things with different intentions. We are up late so that's why we post around the same time. Everyone is their own poster. We're not a mob. We are all individuals. If you're reading the JAT you know we all have differing views on things. I had no idea pas or grassy was going to post. I was busy making sure my post was respectful to this thread.
Originally Posted by
k182:
“BIB yes you can post were you want but not to call people names thats not nice why do it.
I'm being rude know forgetting the 
Sorry everyone ”
I didn't call anyone names.
Originally Posted by gussiecat:
“I am sorry but someone did come into the site and tell us we were out of order for doubting that Josie was happy ( not that anybody did this) and commenting basically on the fact we werent all jumping for joy for JOukey and how sweet they are and for daring to discuss the reasons for her reticence to say I love you, how Lukey would feel about that , and how he seems to be the exact opposite of John. This is an appreciation thread and no one has ever said they didnt want Josie to be happy but for some people and they are entitled to this opinion it all seems rather convenient.
So I am sorry but I for one did feel told off again by Ferfer and this time Pas. They were not rude but they do disapprove of us.”
I didn't tell anyone off. I posted about Josie and me. I didn't disapprove of anyone. Maybe you need to reread my post.
Originally Posted by gussiecat:
“I suppose its because they didnt tell us we were disrespectful and killing the thread and that we should go and post in the mf that i object too. Fine not agreeing with the tone of the conversation and I am really pleased that these people believe everything that Josie says. I believe a lot but hey shoot me i like a bit of fun too but dont like being told that i am destroying a thread that they only post in to criticise our posts.”
I never said anyone was disrespectful. I never said anyone was killing the thread. I didn't say go post in the MF. I didn't mention anyone but Josie, Luke, and me.
Who said you were killing the thread. Not at all. I think your posts are great (except when you're cussing the JAT of course hehe)