The Aaron Appreciation Thread (Part 6)

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Vanessa73

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by grogdog:
“i am not sure that faye and aaron having a conversation about jem and what she said can be taken that she was wanting him to go”

She's just not very loyal. She'll throw Aaron under a bus if it suits her!

lisa1972

31-10-2011

there is very much an ingroup and outgroup situation going on in there at the moment; They have all felt a little bit powerless due to the fact that they have been trying to get rid of Aaron all along, and the public keep saving him this renders them as also rans in there eyes; the convo jay had about Aaron having it in the bag etc means they feel that Aaron has all the control, and as i said all the power; the same with the nominations he had the power again which lowers the groups self esteem

Take yesterday and today, the group have come together to try and make themselves feel better, more powerful and the way they have done this is by taking away some of that power from Aaron and bringing it back to the group; Theyre not talking to him, they are trying to bring him down, but they dont want it to seem negative about them (this is subconscious really) so they are again blaming the member of the outgroup which is Aaron saying look at us we all agree, so he must be wrong and everyone will see it like that (they did it after kissgate as well)

I hate pack mentality, and Tom is one of the worst for this, and its like once they get together they lose their individuality and become faceless group members and act accordingly (bit like a football crowd, or a group of rioters)

I know Aaron isnt blameless in this,but the fact he is getting the blame and not Louise just shows how important being a member of that ingroup is

(sorry psychology overload there)

Vanessa73

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by lisa1972:
“there is very much an ingroup and outgroup situation going on in there at the moment; They have all felt a little bit powerless due to the fact that they have been trying to get rid of Aaron all along, and the public keep saving him this renders them as also rans in there eyes; the convo jay had about Aaron having it in the bag etc means they feel that Aaron has all the control, and as i said all the power; the same with the nominations he had the power again which lowers the groups self esteem

Take yesterday and today, the group have come together to try and make themselves feel better, more powerful and the way they have done this is by taking away some of that power from Aaron and bringing it back to the group; Theyre not talking to him, they are trying to bring him down, but they dont want it to seem negative about them (this is subconscious really) so they are again blaming the member of the outgroup which is Aaron saying look at us we all agree, so he must be wrong and everyone will see it like that (they did it after kissgate as well)

I hate pack mentality, and Tom is one of the worst for this, and its like once they get together they lose their individuality and become faceless group members and act accordingly (bit like a football crowd, or a group of rioters)

I know Aaron isnt blameless in this,but the fact he is getting the blame and not Louise just shows how important being a member of that ingroup is

(sorry psychology overload there)”

They're a bunch of bullies!

Izzie321

31-10-2011

Hi all!! Not a great day eh? He doesn't half stew on things.. Hopefully the ice is broken and things are on their way back to normal. Just because Aaron is my fav housemate doesn't mean I'll think everything he does is well judged... I think it was ill thought through, if not his decision then he convo with Faye definitely. It's paranoia central in there... She's doubting him and his feelings.. I think he could have articulated his feelings much better re. The Alex situ..

Originally Posted by Vanessa73:
“I know,but Faye tried to get him to walk. With friends like these who needs enemies? ”

I think Faye said Jem would walk if Aaron got evicted on the Friday, no?

Cornchips

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by stacesl3:
“I think she is more upset with him because of what he said about wanting Alex in the final instead of her of wtte, we know that Faye is a pretty needy person and seems to need constant re-assurance so she will take this that he has put Alex over her and wont like it, she already said in the convo they had in bed on the h/l show that she wants to feel safe and feel protected which is fair enough, but she does need to give him the benefit of the doubt a bit more and try trust him for a change, this is what frustrates me about her more than anything!
He forgave Faye for nom him as he knows its just a game, others seem to be unaware and take it all very personally, not really anyone in there who matches his intelligence though! ”

she was mad with him as soon as they had nominated so I am not buying that.

Vanessa73

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by Izzie321:
“Hi all!! Not a great day eh? He doesn't half stew on things.. Hopefully the ice is broken and things are on their way back to normal. Just because Aaron is my fav housemate doesn't mean I'll think everything he does is well judged... I think it was ill thought through, if not his decision then he convo with Faye definitely. It's paranoia central in there... She's doubting him and his feelings.. I think he could have articulated his feelings much better re. The Alex situ..
I think Faye said Jem would walk if Aaron got evicted on the Friday, no?”

But Aaron didn't mean for Faye to be up.

lynzee

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by Vanessa73:
“I'm fed up of Faye to be honest. How is she good for Aaron?”

She isn't. Maybe you would be better for him.
Does that put a smile on your face?

You always have the angry face in here.

quasimoron

31-10-2011

Great stuff Lisa, explain the ingroup /outgroup stuff more.Its fascinating.

scout2006

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by grogdog:
“o come on, i cant believe anyone who has been isolated in that enviroment for 7 weeks, and have been through what has happened to both of them, would be fine to hear their boyfriend didnt want them to win or that they would guarantee their place in the final if they could. to me it just feeds all the nonsense that has been fed to her from jem and the other voters last week that she is bein.g played”

You're right about her head being messed with in recent weeks. The problem is she walks away a lot. She gets wound up and switches off. I have exactly the opposite problem, I'll talk something to death

She needed to hear him out properly and find out why he did what he did. Easy for me to say, I know.

*Liya*

31-10-2011

How hard is it to admit that he said the wrong thing at the wrong time...to someone who happens to be upset to up for eviction yet again?. I'd like to think some of you aren't blind fanatics but the Faye bashing in here is a bit OTT.

Vanessa73

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by lynzee:
“She isn't. Maybe you would be better for him.
Does that put a smile on your face? You always have the angry face in here.”

Sorry. Faye pisses me off!

Vanessa73

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by *Liya*:
“How hard is it to admit that he said the wrong thing at the wrong time...to someone who happens to be upset to up for eviction yet again?. I'd like to think some of you aren't blind fanatics but the Faye bashing in here is a bit OTT.”

Did she apologise to him for nominating him 3 times and bitching behind his back?

Cornchips

31-10-2011

Originally Posted by CHARMER1:
“p.s. isint it funny how much Faye has been hanging around Jay today......little does she know what Jay said about her.”

i noticed there were alot of faye and jay tweets today - she is doing it to make aaron jealous I think.

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