Originally Posted by rwebster:
“The laughing during the phone call was superb! I really respected Gbemi for that. She didn't lose her temper, she didn't panic, she didn't cry - she saw the funny side! That's a good response to bad news. The universe needs more people like that. Wisdom to accept the things you can't change, right there. Shit happens, but it's done! Let's roll with it. Brilliant.
I like Gbemi. She's very sincere. The polar opposite of Zara, I'd argue, who's quite pretentious and passive aggressive. Gbemi cut through the flowery explanation, but, in her defence, it was absolute nonsense. Needed cutting through! Not worked out how much of a business flair she has, yet - pitches certainly aren't her thing - but I hope she does well.”
Wow, I can't believe someone thought the
exact opposite to me based on that footage! To me, Gbemi's laughter wasn't the laughter of acceptance, or making the best of a bad job, it was about ridiculing the other teammates and humiliating them in front of her cool pals (who happily joined in.) That turned me off her completely, and I see her more as aggressive-aggressive rather than passive-aggressive... and "blunt" is not the same as "sincere".
Not saying you're wrong BTW, I just picked up an entirely different set of cues... interesting.