Originally Posted by JJJ lover:
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And when the calmness did take over - when I felt deflated
I deleted all the wrong I'd done - and expected her to be elated
But what do find -she's gone and gotten herself a new man
My Lord - I don't know what to do - nothing's gone to plan
”
The poems are fun and I know there's a hope many still have here for them, I hope they can at least be friends at some point but who knows. But he told her he wasn't in love with her. He told Now that too. He never denied that when he denied the girlfriend thing. I reason on facts, so that's something that confuses me.
And the BiB? I do think John had a plan when he left. And I don't think it worked out the way he wanted. Thank goodness for Josie.
Originally Posted by
Wendilums:
“One thing with regard to Johns nasty tweets referring to Josie (at least that's what we assume as her name was never tagged to them). Yes they were awful, some were vile in fact, never thought John would do that in a million years, yes he could have gone further by unfollowing certain vile Josie haters which he didn't. Now please don't shoot me for thinking this, but I seriously am of the opinion that John deleting his tweets set the bench mark for Josie to follow. I don't have the patience or time to go through her twitter to see whether Josie did the same - although in comparison to John's, Josie's tweets were rather more mild. Josie may well have already deleted those tweets, if not perhaps John is waiting for this to happen. If she has, or if John isn't worried about certain tweets from Josie, could it not be that John in his own cryptic or even outwardly way is saying to Josie - I've deleted tweets, now you unfollow BBE, Puck and other people who have been particularly hateful toward me and I will then unfollow Swilli Tw*tti and other people who have been particularly hateful toward you? (The Swilli Tw*tti follow in particular was like a kick in the stomach to Josie). I really do think this is what John is waiting for. If Josie removed certain people, John would too.
They are both soooo blimmin stubborn
”
Sorry, Wendy, I'm going to have to disagree. I don't think deleting the tweets had anything to do with Josie. Maybe he was trying to clear his timeline of anything regarding JJJ? Maybe he wanted a fresh start, let's be honest, he deleted every single tweet and every person he followed before. Maybe he's with Sherrie or someone else now and they didn't like it? Maybe something's coming up for him and he didn't want that on his timeline? I'm sure the number of people they follow that the other would be upset by is about equal.
Josie's replied to a few tweets answering or commenting about John, but none of her tweets have been aimed at him to hurt him. And it doesn't seem to me that any of her follows did that either. And none measure up to Billi. None.
So do you think he's playing another game here? I'll delete, but I won't unfollow Billi until you delete your tweets? And what tweets would those be? Josie's tweeted a bazillion things and not negatively tweeted about him in a long time. No way is Josie going back looking at her old tweets. She moves forward.
I don't think John's waiting for anything for Josie. I think he's moved on to Sherrie, someone else, or no one at this point. I think he deleted for his benefit, whatever that may be.