Originally Posted by killingtime:
“Is she confused? ..... I don't think she's confused about how she feels about him any more, too much time's passed and I get the impression she's done most if not all the soul searching she's going to do on that score.”
Agree absolutely. I don't see how Josie could be confused any longer; I do think there are some people would like to think she is still confused about the situation, but I don't see her as being so.
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“Probably some but probably more so because they do share some characteristics rather than because she's viewing all men in reference to John and ticking off some kind of imaginery mental list with regards to good or bad traits that John had, which I personally don't believe, I think it's the fans that do that more so than Josie ie translate every word, action, comment in terms of what does this mean for or about John or how Josie feels now with regards to John. Instead of just viewing it as her wanting what she always seemingly wanted in a guy, someone who would love and accept her for who she was, someone she could lean on and count on for support when and if she needed to and most of all someone she could share her life fully with. Maybe that person will turn out to be Luke maybe Luke's just good for her at the present time, if he's making her feel happy for right now that's all anyone can ask really.”
Again agree; I think it's fans that want things to be a certain way so desperately (some supporters, of course, not all), they are thinking about John in relation to Josie that they seem to see everything Josie says and does in relation to John, when there is no indication that Josie thinks about John very often and certainly no sign of her pining for him in any way, shape or form. I know that some people want it to be the case, but that doesn't make it so.
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“I think it's natural that it only being a few months since they split and returning to the BB set on a regular basis memories of her time with John would be present in her mind and surface every now and then but as far as being conflicted goes and still loving/hating John, not so sure about that one, I think she did what he left her with no option but to do when he walked away in that mentally and emotionally she let him go and has since managed for the most part to move on with her life and look forwards and to her future rather than backwards to a past that can't be changed now even supposing she wanted to.”
It must have been strange going back to the BB House at first, I can imagine the memories were bitter and sweet, but it might also have been cathartic for her, finally thinking of it as a TV show she was on and seeing it moving forward with new contestants. She said on her DS interview that it was a great time, good memories, etc., so she obviously has a fondness for her time in the House - which is a good thing, I'm glad she doesn't look on it all with bitterness.
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“Where do most people place negative memories of an ex? I don't think Josie's any different to anyone else in that respect is she?”
Hopefully, like the rest of us, time has (or will) softened some of those more negative memories and she can look back on the good ones with a smile at some point