Originally Posted by Mile:
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As I said banter and ribbing should have boundaries and people are entitled to their quirks.Noone should feel they have the right to say what they please to someone.
I know it was not malicious, but it was inappropriate especially to someone you hardly know really.A bit intrusive.
She was in the wrong over the Anton thing but put it all on Aaron to assuage her own guilt, instead of apologising.
I certainly would not call a person weird or odd to their face in front of others. Its not really funny when you are the butt of jokes.Its mean teasing really..But then Aaron sat there and allowed it.
I feel if she had got with Jay, she would not dream of speaking to him that way and lets face it, Jay had quirks aplenty.
A person is entitled to be who they are and that should be respected
I feel Faye liked him at that time, but found him embarrassing and uncool at the same time.You have to accept people for who they are.I just feel in the house she did not always show him respect and was often disloyal..But I feel it was lack of maturity, rather than malice.
The divorce thing was unfortunate but not meant badly and I felt he was angry about it.But again he allowed it and really needed to put up those boundaries about what was acceptable to him. As I said above noone should feel or be allowed to feel, they can say what they want to you or disregard your feelings.
I have my fingers crossed for this romance for Aaron's sake but I have my realistic glasses on and not the rose coloured ones.Its the honey moon period at the moment but when harsh reality sets in, what then.I honestly hope this works out and this issue came up in their many discussions.
The thing is we were never allowed to see them, so who knows.
Disrespect has no place in a healthy relationship.
I am a logical, soul and yea I know, I spoil all the romance.