Originally Posted by clareiow:
“This day has been very sad for me, as a sports fan perhaps more than anything, as I admired him as a player and always believed he could have been one of the great managers.
The tears from Robbie and from shay given at the Swansea game earlier, as well as the applause through the minute silence made me cry.
I suffered mild depression through my teenage years when, on the outside, i appeared to have everything going for me. I know what it's like to think "would anyone notice I'm gone" - no matter what people think of you, you feel worthless and insignificant. Thankfully I never felt that bad that I did anything drastic and I came out the other side.... It's such a lonely place tho.
RIP Gary, and condolences to Robbie and all Gary's family and friends xx”
I agree with you, and it is a lonely place.
Gary, next to Terry Yorath, was the best manager Wales have had. Mark Hughes is my third favourite.
I also watched him play as a youngster at Leeds.
And I have depression, though on the outside people would not know and when I do tell them they think I'm joking. Only my husband knows the true extent of it and he has saved my life - literally once.
And Robbie, bless him. I do hope this inspires him, to carry on and do better, for Gary.